David said, “I don’t use any woman’s flaws to date anybody . All woman are the same what’s the difference in color and size?”

Pam R. said, “It is tied to a stereotype that has been around from the time we were discovered by the Europeans. Just don’t feed into it.”

“We’re all human and God’s children…we are free to love each other,” said Fari E.

“Because a lot of black men hate themselves and do not even realize it. Black men have been ostracized to the level of not knowing who they are or whose they are, which is why as black women we must end the ridicule of the black man and speak life to them,” said Gwendolyn J.

“Lust”, said Barbara M.

“They have low self-esteem: meaning they think “white” is better,” said Michele B.

“Love is where you find it. I dated Black, White and Latino. I married Black. He is wonderful and treats me like a Queen. I am blessed,” said Patricia M.

Calvin J. said, “Works both ways, Ladies: Why do Black women use our perceived flaws to justify dating outside their race ? Unbelievably, there are some who base that on what they read (novels) and see on TV and in movies.”

Beverly S. said, “WHO KNOWS!!!”

Donyale S. said, “I think that men as have women have had bad experiences with some black women. Instead of dealing with that issue, they will deal with a different race. If a black man wants a white woman because he’s attracted to her, and would date a black woman for the same reason, I don’t have a problem with that. However, if he dates a woman outside his race because he feels all black women are evil, that’s unfair, because they haven’t met me yet. That’s like me saying all men are verbally abusive because that’s all I’ve dealt with. How would you feel if that was what was leveled at you?”

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91 thoughts on “WE ASKED, YOU ANSWERED: Why Do Black Men Date Outside Their Race?

  1. andrew on said:

    as a black man i remember seeing black men with white women as well as black women with white men and thinking they were sell outs but now as an older man and seeing the current state of black women with their Weaves,, and trendy over make up wearing and world leading in fix a flat butt jobs and last but not least attitude,,,i now not only not despise it but advise black men to look elsewhere..not just white but asian, hispanic,, indian as well. P.S….our black women now look more like trannies.

    • Brittany on said:

      This is so ignorant. Let’s ignore for a second the majority of black women who do not have plastic surgery or body modifications and even the ones who have natural hair and barely wear makeup. You do realize that white women have a longer history with makeup than black women. I didn’t know many white girls who didn’t wear makeup when I was 16, 16! Makeup has always been more accepted among white women. So why the problem with black women wearing it? And you do realize that the natural movement is making a HUGE comeback in the black community and many black women with long hair wear weave to protect the hair as our hair is a different texture and breaks more easily than white/Latina hair. And plastic surgery? White women are the QUEENS of plastic surgery. You can not be serious with that comment. Also, Latina women are praised for their attitudes yet you’re downing black women for theirs? You’re just another coon trying to justify your self-hate.

  2. andrew on said:

    as a black man i remember seeing black men with white women as well as black women with white men and thinking they were sell outs but now as an older man and seeing the current state of black women with their Weaves,, and trendy over make up wearing and world leading in fix a flat butt jobs and last but not least attitude,,,i now advise black men to look elsewhere..not just white but asian, hispanic,, indian as well.

  3. Decross on said:

    I feel like I’ve made it in life with a white woman, she has straight hair, fair skin, and I feel more of a man with a delicate white woman. White women make me feel fair and successful, and knowing that our offspring won’t look like ghetto trash gives me an ego. I know white skin is better and always will be, they are a sign of wealth prestige and dominance. They are superior in every way and I’m glad to dip my black pole in the opposite of black,

    • Then you are not a “MAN”, my friend! If any other human being on the planet, needed another hunan being to make them feel ” validated”, then you are a lost cause. Brainwashed by the ” American dream” that white is right or better. I feel sorry for you and the children you will raise…tou have no self identitty as a black man; nor self love. Your actually pitiful in all aspects and when your white woman wakes up from this sorry dream…she’s not gonna want you either. Your loyalty is misplaced and misguided! Your only loyal to the flesh…she will be replaceable and so will you.

  4. Cheryl Morcom on said:

    I have dated within my race and outside of my race. I am in love with a black man not because of his color, but because of his heart, who he is as a person, his integrity as well as all of his other qualities. Love is color blind.

  5. Black women are rude plain and simple they love to get loud
    You can’t reason with them.Some of them don’t want a good black man with white women they will give you a chance and try to work with you.

  6. I date white women because they are more fun and they not scare of life
    They take chances. If we have a disagreement they won’t argue but talk about it. That is the difference.

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