2. He will step aside and let another man in because he really has been doing bad stuff and will think you’re too much of a good girl for him.
4. You don’t apologize – Wooooo! This one is hard for a lot of women and men. Listen, we all aren’t right 100% of the time, if you are wrong and get found out that you are wrong but don’t even offer up a sincere apology for it, he’s wondering if this is the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. A simple apology lets a man know that (1) you are human. No man wants a know-it-all woman, especially one who puts it in his face that she knows it all. And (2) shows that you care enough about him and his feelings to be the bigger person and admit your wrongs. Offer him a kiss, cook him a dinner…something to let him know you are sorry along with your apology. It goes a long way–trust me.
5. You don’t recognize his effort – Ladies, ladies, ladies…a real man will make an effort for you, in more ways than one. He will make an effort financially, socially, and even spiritually if he wants to spend the rest of his life with you. But if those small efforts aren’t even recognized, he’s thinking in the back of his head, why am I even putting in effort if I won’t get anything in return?
You know your man, right? Find a way to celebrate him, not just on father’s day, NOT just on his birthday, but just some random day to celebrate HIM. If he’s truly a great guy like you think he is, don’t lose him just because of your stubbornness to always make it about you. If he’s making an effort in a certain area, tell him, show him that you appreciate him. I don’t want to tell you how many times, MARRIED MEN who cheat express that their main reason is that the woman doesn’t appreciate him anymore. Don’t just think about you, think of both of you.
Well, this is just part one. There’s more truth to this than you know. After all is said and done and you gave it your all, then maybe that guy isn’t the one for you anyway. Just be the best woman you can be and “the one” will find you.
Peace.
5 Guaranteed Ways He Will Never Marry You was originally published on blackdoctor.org
