White Mayor, Black Wife: NYC Shatters an Image

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  • Another milestone is passing in America’s racial journey: The next mayor of New York City is a white man with a black wife.

    Even in a nation with a biracial president, where interracial marriage is more accepted and common than ever, Bill de Blasio‘s marriage to Chirlane McCray is remarkable: He is apparently the first white politician in U.S. history elected to a major office with a black spouse by his side.

    This simple fact is striking a deep chord in many people as de Blasio prepares to take office on Jan. 1, with McCray playing a major role in his administration.

    “It reflects the American values of embracing different races, ethnicities, religions. I think it’s just a great symbol,” said William Cohen, the former Maine senator and Secretary of Defense, who is married to a black woman.

    Cohen was already a senator when he started dating Janet Langhart, a black television journalist. He proposed several times, but she feared that her race would hurt Cohen’s political future. They married in 1996, a few weeks after Cohen announced he would not seek a fourth term.

    “There has been that fear (of interracial marriage) on the part of politicians. I didn’t have it,” Cohen said. He noted that a few white politicians have married Latino or Asian women, like former Florida Gov. Jeb Bush, whose wife is from Mexico, or Kentucky Sen. Mitch McConnell, who is married to the Taiwan-born former Labor Secretary Elaine Chao.

    There have been black men in politics who have been married to white women, such as Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas or former Massachusetts Sen. Edward Brooke. And high-profile women such as South Carolina Gov. Nikki Haley, whose parents are from India, and Mia Love, the black mayor of Saratoga Springs, Utah, are married to white men.

    Yet unions of white men and black women have retained a forbidden aura, Cohen said.

    “It’s black and white, it’s slavery and Jim Crow and the fact you can’t talk about it,” he said. “Black and white has been more of a taboo in the eyes of enough people to be a deterrent.”

    The taboo is declining, polls show.

    In July, a Gallup poll found that 87 percent of Americans approved of interracial marriage — the highest rate ever — compared with 4 percent in 1958. In 2010, more than 15 percent of all new marriages were interracial, according to the Pew Research Center.

    Yet statistics also indicate why de Blasio and McCray are such a rarity.

    The Gallup poll showed that 14 percent of white people did not approve of intermarriage, compared with 2 percent of black people. And white men are the least likely to marry outside of their race — more than 97 percent of white men are married to white women (82 percent of black men, 65 percent of Hispanics and 48 percent of Asians marry within their own group). The figures are based on 2005 census data analyzed by Michael Rosenfeld, a Stanford University sociologist who studies interracial marriage.

    Much has been made of the difficulties black women have in selecting husbands from a pool of eligible black men shrunk by unemployment and incarceration. Among black women age 35 and over, more than 25 percent have never been married, compared with about 7 percent of white women, census figures show. Black men also are twice as likely as black women to marry outside of their race, according to Rosenfeld.

    American history and culture, meanwhile, are littered with troubled tales of interracial couples. There have been centuries of debate over President Thomas Jefferson fathering children with his slave Sally Hemings; Sen. Strom Thurmond fought for segregation after having a child with a black housekeeper. In his 1991 film, Spike Lee dubbed interracial sex “Jungle Fever.”

    All of which helps explain why many saw the matrimonial script being flipped by McCray and de Blasio.

    “We’re seeing black women loved in a way we have not seen before,” said Aja Monet, a poet and New Yorker.

    She sees this trend in real life and fiction, from McCray to first lady Michelle Obama to the Olivia Pope character in “Scandal,” the hit TV show about a powerful black political operative in a relationship with a white president.

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    11 thoughts on “White Mayor, Black Wife: NYC Shatters an Image

    1. My Welsh great-grandfather married my West African-Blackfoot Indian great-grandmother in 1926 when it wasn’t considered fashionable or “breaking barriers.” They didn’t get press coverage for their relationship. They just loved each other and us, and taught us to look past skin color when choosing our friends.

    2. I find nothing wrong with this as a Blackman this woman married her love who just happens to be white so what……. you hater’s need to get a life GOD don’t like ugly

      • The question is why is her marriage to a white man worthy of a two page article? Many black politicians are married to black women why is this union so special? Could it be that many blacks still believe that acceptance from any white person is a step up in the world? It is sick that in 2013 any type of acceptance from white people puts a 24 hour grin on some black peoples face. Hopefully the world knows that all black people are not somewhere waiting for a pat on the head and a good job from a white person. This article is white supremacy at its finest.

    3. I don’t understand the point of this article if it is to prove White Men have an undying love for black women read about Renisha Mcbride. This mans wife is a former lesbian and their relationship should not be portrayed as some fairytale romance for black people to look up to. White men have long used black women to bare children for them read The Destruction of Black Civilization by Chancelor Williams.

    4. This article is in no way demeaning black men or women, but purely staying a fact that this particular mayor has a black spouse. I am happy that the article is being promoted on a black website and obliterating the stigma attached to black women marrying outside the race. Good for this mayor and good for this black woman who refused to limit her options to black men only. More power to them both!

    5. I am very disgusted that this black website would run an article like this. I am a black woman and I am very tired of the lies about black women not being able to find a black man mate. I and my friends are dating and marrying educated black men. We range from our twenties, thirties, and forties. Some of us have been married more than once. Where is our story?

      Why is it this woe is me I am a black woman and all I can date or marry is a white man? And they are perfect and they are our saviors.

      Really, I and my friends beg to differ. And it is not only just us it is also other black women who are family, friends, associates. We are able to find black men and that is a large demographic of people.

      Here is the main attitude I see in this article:
      Lord have mercy, I found me a White Man. I am SAVE. But here is something that you are not saying. They do not all Marry black women they sleep with. They create out of wedlock children with black women they never take care of. They live off of black women and let black women take care of them and their out of wedlock children. I know, because I have a relative going thru this.

      White men beat black women, cheat on black women, they are uneducated as well, they call black women racial slurs, they don’t take care of their children, they are alcoholics. I have seen news articles, movies, and documentary of several black women with education, wealth, and those in poverty, These women were beaten to death and murdered by their White husbands who they married. We had a murder a few years ago with a black woman and her white boyfriend.

      But you are printing an article white men are better and that of course because you can’t find a black men (even though many of you have never tried dating black men) White man is prime option.

      However, lets not forget it is white men and women who have preyed on and destroyed the black community for years. It is these white heros that destroyed black families and have been preying on black families for years.

      This only shatters the myth that white men marry black women but guess what, Lena horne, mini rippleton, etc and the many before them have had children with white men and now these children don’t even identify themselves as black at all.

      Lol, I am a black woman and my savior is not white.

      • Where in this article does it state that white men are better than black men? How is this article offensive? What is the author doing other than reporting a factual story?

    6. Just like Judge Thomas he married a Senators daughter so what is the difference? God Bless NYC MAYOR & Family, such a beautiful picture.

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