For The Fellas
All of the same issues that I stated above apply to women as well, but you must remember that they are enhanced because of the emotional aspect of women. The following issues may also be at play:
- Weight gain
- Lowered self esteem
- PMS
- Work stress
- Health issues
- Lack of attention
- Lack of confidence in her abilities
- Fatigue
With keeping these issues in mind, just like the ladies, you have to figure out what role you may be playing to turn her off from not wanting to have sex. Have you lost your sex appeal or gained weight? Do you pay more attention to your job or the game than you do her? Have you stopped giving her compliments on how beautiful she is? Once you can pinpoint where you’re slacking, you then have to find a way to reduce her insecurities. If you see she’s gained weight, offer to go to the gym together and give her a massage afterwards coupled with a nice bubble bath. That is one of the best ways to make a woman feel sexy and get her in the mood for loving. If you notice she hasn’t been feeling confident in her sex appeal, buy her a sexy lingerie set or a curve hugging dress that she can sport while you’re out to dinner. Cater to your woman so she will be more open to give you the increase in sex that you desire.
Open and honest communication is key to getting the extra loving you want. Pinpoint the issues that cause the decrease in sexual desire through self-examination and one-on-one conversation, work to resolve the issues and get to loving!
The GOOD Sex Talk Couples Are Afraid To Have was originally published on blackdoctor.org
