Jada Pinkett-Smith has turned her Facebook page into a personal blog of sorts. In the past, she has discussed cheating, relationships, and various other topics related to life, love and religion.

This week Jada asked her fans via Facebook why heterosexual women decide to resort to same-sex relationships as a last resort for intimacy.

Read her full post below and check out the photo she posted as well.


“Before I begin…I want to make one thing clear. It’s important that you know that I believe love comes in ALL forms. I believe a person should love WHOMEVER…HOWEVER they choose. But…I do have a question.

In the last month, three women, in their 40s, coming out of long term relationships with men have confided in me that they now feel that their last resort for companionship is that with a woman. These are women who have never engaged in or even desired to be in intimate relationships with other women. Now these women feel as though they have no other option. It seems as if there is a spike in same sex love all around. What is changing in which how men and women are relating to one another, that is creating same sex love as a LAST RESORT for heterosexual women?



Let us know what you think about Jada’s comments below in the comment section.

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23 thoughts on “Jada Pinkett-Smith Asks Women Why They Resort to Same-Sex Relationships for Intimacy

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  3. All these all years we know going with woman and woman, men going with men been is wrong now peolpe like jade’s want us to thinks the devil work is right.

    • Buckwheats Momma on said:

      Oh Please!!!
      Jada asked a question. It has nothing to do with the “devil”
      Some of you overly religeous types need to stop with the devil talk. You take the crap too far!
      What was it in her question to make you think she want us to think that the devils work is right?
      Please stop the ignorance and the dumb crap!

  4. The Devil’s question was a good one… Now the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the Lord God had made. And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden?
    And the woman said unto the serpent, We may eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden:
    But of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God hath said, Ye shall not eat of it, neither shall ye touch it, lest ye die.
    And the serpent said unto the woman, Ye shall not surely die:
    For God doth know that in the day ye eat thereof, then your eyes shall be opened, and ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil.
    The Media and the Government, and the powers that wanna be still use the same tactics, suggestive conversation or imagery and try to trick you into being old fashioned or shallow minded!

  5. mrsragzsragzs on said:

    Intimacy is often mistaken for sex,which it is not, this is the confusion. We are broken women our heritage alone has made us broken, inaddition to the dysfuctional relationships we have encountered some since infancy. I am not in a same sex relationship, I am happily married and intend to keep the “until death do me part”, but when I hit 40 as the women Jada refereded to I started to need intimacy not good sex with my husband.If you do not understand intimacy or what you crave as a women seek a relationship with God, there is no more filling intimacy than the one with the father.
    Sex is physical and it does not feed your soul.

  6. A very legit question Jada. Back in the 1970’s I was married to a not to nice man. Not to get into the details, but one thing he said to me still resonates in my head.” I KNOW WE ARE NOT GONNA MAKE IT BECAUSE OF ME, I BET YOU GONNA GET A WOMAN NOW, AFTER ME, YOU WONT EVEN WANT ANOTHER MAN AFTER ME.” He was not saying this in malice, we were just having a heart to heart conversation that day. I said “NO” WHY WOULD I WANT A WOMAN . HE SAID BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN SUCH A ????? PERSON TO YOU. I SAID THAT IS YOUR ISSUE NOT MINE, I AM GONNA BE OK WITH YOU, WITHOUT YOU, ALONE OR WITH ANOTHER MAN, BUT NO I AM NOT GONNA DO THAT. So Jada, Why , you ask? I believe because just like my X thought I would have a woman next time, there are a lot of people think its the gender and not the person doing the evil deed.

    • Kay thank you for acknowledging the fact that getting your heart broken does not mean you will want to have intimacy with a women. it does matter like you said of the person who has done the awful deed to you, it has nothing to do with gender. thank you for acknowledging that for the others on this website. I appreciate you offering that to us. thats what I was trying to say. yes I have had my heart broken many times in my life. but it never made me wonder or want to find intimacy with a woman.
      This stuflf jada is speaking about is to warp our minds. and believe in this social media crap, its just something to get our minds clouded, and take our minds into other dark places where we don’t need to be. every woman out there is not turning to the other sex for intimacy. I don’t understand why jada
      would want to have any of our opinions.anyway.like a said it is A bunch of Rhetoric, and to blaque
      like I said its social media crap jada smith does not have information on intimacy and she does not have any answers in relationships she is not going to get my mind thinking about transgender’s or cross/dressers or who is gay or who is normal. I really cannot believe she would even ask something of the public like this. but I won’t write about this again. there is other things going on in the world besides what jada smith wants to know. Give me break.THe devil is always in the details, lets pay attention to these social media websites, they are to warp our minds and keep us in darkness and to keep us from GOD. and keep our minds on the Devil..

      • Buckwheats Momma on said:

        Sorry, but you are way off base!
        If Jada’s question can warp your mind, keep you in darkness and away from GOD, then one must truly be a weak person.
        I have to ask why you are taking it with such emotion? It is simply a question and one that millions of human beings may want to know about, not just Jada.
        Lighten up! 🙂

      • I don’t have to lighten for you and or anybody esle I’m just giving my opinion just like you,
        buckwheat. and that is what my opinion is, and that is what is happening in real life, I’m not weak
        I’m a very aware person,like I said I don’t have to lighten up on anything. I’m just trying to let you know
        that social media is corrupt. I’m very aware of Bull crapp, and Rhetoric. so you can say whatever you want but I can’t GET YOUR LIFE .. please give me a break. don’t tell me to lighten up. I have been enlightened already.

      • Buckwheats Momma on said:

        Did not write that you did not have a right to your opinion.
        We all do, and we all have one.
        Have a great day. 🙂

  7. STOP THE DUMB SHYT……Jada question is a good question Joey. Hear this Joey, it’s alright to ask a question, okay. Girls or woman who become curious about the opposite sex have thought/wondered and they are feeling a little lost. You ever go in a restaurant, and they have the Greek, Roman Italian wall paper that looks Bibical, and you wonder why all those naked women are laying all over each other? The world was freaky back then, but all woman together didn’t mean much because woman don’t have the insertion method. To get this one thing about homosexual out of the way, if I may. GOD made man first. He placed holes on his body to leak secretion eyes, ears, etc. and one special place for his bowel to rid of waste. GOD took a rib from man, and made woman giving her a insertion hole for Babies so that the bowel hole stays for waste droppings. Man is so nasty he wants to use his waste hole to have sex with the opposite sex. This is not Gay. It’s called the down low, keeping it on the down low. A man born Gay is a real born Gay man. He thinks more feminine. He rather love an hold a man in his arm. This is a freakness in nature. People are born, different, with an extra toe, or finger, two heads joined, transvestite, and all types of handicapps. People are born with sensitive spots. If you rub on your ear and it feels good, you want to do that again. People have to be taught discipline. Man took lot’s of things out of the picture to distort it so that he can have pleasure else where on the body. I haven’t forgot about females. Give me a minute. A gay man can have pleasure with a woman. Some have been bought up that way. Society (back in the days) felt it was okay to do it the different way, therefore we end up with feminine men. today when these men have arguments and they sit down with a counselor, do you know the counselor’s advice is that one of them has to learn, to be more subservient in order to get along. The female role is to be more subservient towards her man. Females are feeling lost and alone because all the men have diverted, in jail, in the grave yard, in the branches of the military or become Gay. Their are girls on the down low. There are girls who were born Gay. The girl that’s on the low needs a prop in order to perform in one area as a man, but she doesn’t need to bother the waste hole. People make a choice to use the waste hole, and that’s nasty. Since the girl has a insertion hole it makes her a better man, than that nasty man that is using his butt hole. I’m not gay. I’m straight as an arrow, and I love men to death. Can’t and don’t want to live without them. So girls if you want to kiss each other go right ahead. There are things that a girl can do but a man can’t. Did I answer you Jada. Love you gurl. (in a straight way, LoL).

    • Buckwheats Momma on said:

      @ Randy,

      Please tell us how you would know that?

      Certainly you don’t pass on gossip that you “heard/read” someplace do you?

  8. joey on said:

    I don’t believe in Religion and I don’t believe in same sex marriages, there is no such thing. why do we have to listen to this Rhetoric from Jada Smith. this is just a bunch of Crap, Please love is like a rain-drop it can fall on anybody, but when it falls on me. it will be a man. not a woman, and yes I’m sure we have all had our hearts broken, but don’t think for one minute that gay women and men don’t get there hearts broken. its the same thing. So don’t think for one minute that it matters, who gets hurt. Hurt is Hurt no matter who does it to you. its just apart of life. I’m sure we can talk about something else besides. women going off with other women because they been hurt by a man,
    GIVE ME A BREAK.! please jada get some business. you have enough going on. move on people Please don’t believe the HYPE.

    • MagMeli on said:

      People! I think Jada has a very valid question. I don’t feel that she isasking why out of not taking in the account of all factors as stated by Ladysabrina; however I feel she is asking out of concern to say that yes there is hurt, anger, pain, mixed emotions, etc. etc. etc… that comes with relationships, but why do we give up so easily and go to same sex relationships. It is a bit of a cop out. When I hear teens state that they are gay as teens and they have only had one relationship that more than likely is not quaility or healthy, I become concerned. I am an open-minded individual and I know that right now in the world we live in there are many dysfunctionally functioning situations in homes. When women or girls automatically assume that due to their male hardship relationships that being in a same sex relationship will make it better or cure their desires for love they are perhaps cutting themselves short of mature evaluation of self and developing a relationship with a person of the opposite sex. I do not presume to be judgemental about same sex relationships; to each his own. Just concerned that some make it the new normal!

      • joey on said:

        Hi Magmell, I wasn’t being judgmental let me say that!.. but yes we do have young people thinking
        because this is the new normal. if they are watching Television and watching reality shows, that say this is okay it gives them a sense of insecurity. we need to talk to our children. and sit down with them. instead of letting them use facebook and twitter. and think that social media controls our children. but why would jada smith wanna know what we think? what is her agenda behind this
        because trust me, she has an agenda. You can have female friend and have a wonderful friendship but why do we have to subject ourselves to what everybody else is doing. why because its the New Fad, that is going on. I’m not going to involved in jada’s HYPE, maybe she’s thinking about having a realtionship with a woman. why is she so interested in what we think. Please give me a break. she is not even in the same class as us Regular Folk. we are not celebs. we don’t live in a 15 million dollar homes. and have a husband that makes 20 million a movie. so why would she wanna know what we think? she must don’t have anything to do.

      • Buckwheats Momma on said:

        I, too, have concerns and that is why I feel Jada is asking a legit question.

        I believe that if you are homosexual you like being with the same sex as you, however in my opinion no straight woman would be with another woman sexually unless she was homosexual!
        Because you may have had a bad relationship with a man is no reason to turn to a woman.
        I believe that some of these relationships are about sex and we see more and more black females stating that they are with a woman, and even planning to marry them.
        The problem may be that many woman make the wrong choices in the men they choose to bring into their lives.
        The bottom line is that there are many good black men (and other races) of men out here that are worthy, ready and looking for a good women. Also ladies, you must be the person you are looking for, so stop trying to get with men that are out of your league and then calling them loosers, and no good because they don’t want to be with you.

  9. Buckwheats Momma on said:

    Please tell us if you know Jada!
    Exactly what does your response mean?
    Jada has asked a question that I certainly want to know, and I can only assume that millions of other hetrosexual females would also like to know/understand.
    My position is that I have always enjoyed intimate relationships with men. It is not hard to find if one wants it.
    Perhaps YOU can share you rexperience/ knowledge of why some women resort to same sex relationships for intimacy!

    • Bi curious? Because they feel like it? Just because? Oh well, what the hell? Dang, why not? Wonder what THAT would feel like? Know what, I think I’ll just try something different. I could go on and on. Could be any number of reasons, non of which in my opinion warrant any deep discussion about why. Again, just my humble opinion.

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