Every once in a while, something will pop up on social media that causes a stir. Two week ago it was an Atlanta teacher who was accused of being scantily clad while teaching and now, it’s newlyweds who are being accused of excessive PDA.

Newlyweds Quell and Felicia recently tied the knot, and the husband shared a photo of them with his hand on her behind. Grabbing a chunk of her booty, he captioned the photo with, “I had this crush on this girl that sat behind me in biology 6 years ago, today I married her.”

The image invoked a lot of discussion. While many tweets were in congratulations of their union, others believed him grabbing her behind was demeaning.

One commenter even concluded that he was grabbing his wife like a “harlot”— harsh words for someone who’s intent was to affirm his love.

“More than a discussion on feminism or the sexualization of Black women, the smile on her face tells it all,” says MadameNoire.com writer Veronica Wells. “There is no part of her expression or her body language that says she was uncomfortable with this, that she didn’t realize he was grabbing her booty. Nothing in her face says that by projecting herself or allowing herself to be projected as a sex object, she was somehow degrading herself or allowing her husband, with one gesture to remove her from the pedestaled position of wife.”

Adding, “So regardless of what anyone else thinks about this, the fact that she was cool with it, should let us know we don’t have to be pressed either.”

At the end of the day: If the wife in the photo doesn’t have a problem with it, maybe we shouldn’t.



8 thoughts on “FAIR OR FOUL? Newlywed Photo Goes Viral For The Wrong Reason

  1. He put it out there for the world to see. He was proud to marry her, and they the right to express his happiness. I wouldn’t put my business on front street like that, but she’s his Queen and he’s her King. Congrats!! Hope everyone likes my self-help/relationship book, “7 Types of Queens, Kings Desire.”

  2. cheryl on said:

    I have no problem if she don’t. He’s expressing his love and the same people complaining, are the same ones who can’t wait to see what the slut KIM KHARDASHIAN and her plastic sisters will expose next on instagram. The same ones who can’t wait to see the next version of the so called REALITY TV SHOWS. I bet her BUTT is real too. Flaunt it #grownup57

  3. Perhaps she’s too stupid to be uncomfortable. After thirty years of marriage to a still beautiful woman, I still love to grab or butt, just not in public or in a picture! Other posters are correct, no class at all!

  4. Ulari Waller on said:

    OMGEEEE people complain about everything, our biggest concern right is to keep that crazy behind Trump out of the White House. Some folks could be hating because they aren’t married. IJS

    • Who the hell wants to think about Trump 24/7? Most people can walk and chew gum at the same time. On another note, if you handed these two a check for a million dollars, it still wouldn’t be enough to buy even a ounce of class. Her parents must be thrilled and his dad should be embarrassed.

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