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Ciara opened up about her current man, her ex-man and the double standard that applies when the baby daddy has a problem with his child being around the new boyfriend.

“It’s been very interesting to hear what a lot of guys have had to say,” Ciara said during an appearance Wednesday on “CBS This Morning.” She was referring to those men (and her ex-boyfriend Future) who have a problem with their son, Future Zahir Wilburn, spending time with her current boyfriend, Russell Wilson of the Seattle Seahawks. “I feel like in a sense it’s a bit of a double standard, because when we were together, I took care of his kids as well.

“I was involved [with Future’s children] very early in the stage of us getting to know each other,” she added. “It’s kind of like, ‘Well, what’s the difference here?’ I think that even for the men that were outspoken, it’s like, wouldn’t you want someone to love on your child, or love on the child that you are speaking about?”

Ciara continued: “To the guys who have such an opinion, know your facts! I did reach out to [Future] for him and Russell to speak and he didn’t want to talk to me. You know, we didn’t get to talk, and so that was that. I don’t know what more they would expect for me to do than just live my life, and that’s what I’m doing.”

On the topic of her and Russell Wilson’s celibacy, she says she doesn’t think that Wilson intended to share that part of their relationship with the world, given that he was having an “organic conversation” in a church.

“It’s a great challenge; I can definitely say that,” she says, adding that the decision was about religion but also about “wanting to love each other, really wanting to know each other, really wanting to build and grow a solid foundation, because [sex] is the cherry on top. You know, sometimes I think that can also cloud your emotions and you can kind of not really get to see a person for who they are, so we are challenging ourselves.”

Watch the entire interview below:

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13 thoughts on “Ciara Talks Relationship Double Standards on ‘CBS This Morning’ [WATCH]

  1. QueenB on said:

    Is Future worried about his other kids mothers and who they are spending time with? I think he’s tripping because Cici is a star and Russell is an NFL player and she found someone that adores her. Future should meet with Russell since he is around his child. Man grow up already. Get out your damn feelings!!!!!

  2. specialt757 on said:

    Okay what I don’t understand (not trying to offend any Ciara fans), but when did Ciara become “Super” Ciara? And what makes her “super”?

  3. BRAVO. She is right. When women take care of men children from other women , it is ok; however, if a man step in and help with another man kids, some folks including the bio father who often is not doing a @#$ thing want to talk trash.

  4. olivia on said:

    A single person with a child/children is a package deal…exes need to accept that & it doesn’t take away the fact of who the parent is..who would want to date someone that doesn’t want to show love towards their child??

  5. The problem is he’s ( Future ) is not there, so things are going to stop, until he’s ready! I don’t think so, she has the right to be happy! IF the father was doing right by the child this wouldn’t be addressed.

    • Exactly!! There are a lot of men doing right by their kids. Unfortunately a few bad apples gets us all thrown under the bus. Maybe these women need to choose more wisely who they decide to lay down with???

  6. Candygirl81 on said:

    That’s right Ciara. Men and these double standards they push on women everyday is sickening. Get your s%^t together men, and you wouldn’t have the worry of your babies being around another man.

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