There was a day when two people could be in a relationship and everything was kept between the two, but now we live in a world where relationship statuses, issues within relationships and intimate moments are shared in every waking detail on social media. Keeping a healthy line of communication is one of the most important elements of a successful relationship, and sometimes information shared through Facebook, Twitter or Instagram can scramble lines of communication causing confusion and arguments.
If you are in a relationship where you and your partner keep tabs on each other through social media, here are a few tips on how to maintain a digitally social image without damaging your relationship.
Establish open communication with your partner.
It’s very easy to find yourself lurking through your partner’s social media pages during a break from work or at night before drifting off to sleep to see exactly what he/she is doing on the world wide web, but this type of searching should never be your sole line of communication with your partner.
When you are with your partner in the physical, or when you are having a phone conversation with him/her, this is the time to ask the right questions and to establish a line of clear and open communication. You shouldn’t have to log on to Facebook to hear that your partner hated the chicken dinner you made last night, or to discover that your partner wants out of the relationship. Before publishing private thoughts about your relationship with the public, make sure that you are communicating directly with your partner to avoid arguments and frustrations later on. This should be a rule of thumb: If I haven’t spoken directly to my partner about it, then it shouldn’t be posted online.
Establish what should be disclosed via social media.
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1. Just a NY girl with BIG dreams....
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2. HAPPY CHILDREN=QUALITY PARENTING. We don't always see eye to eye on everything and that's normal. We're human beings. But we come together and do it right for what's important, the kids. We are not enemies, we are parents. And we are parents 1st. S/O to @monyettashaw for making Mason's bday memorable. S/O to @itscrystalsmith at home taking care of our other lil' Prince. ❤️❤️❤️ THIS IS WHAT CO-PARENTING LOOKS LIKE. #Blessed #Happy #AboveTheDrama #BiggerThanUs
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3. So happy to finally be able to share with you all that I’m the new Global Brand Ambassador for @Revlon! Follow my day on RevlonSnaps. Yay! Choose Love, Everybody! #RevlonXCiara #chooselove #ad
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4. Glam on point!!!@makeupbymotoko & @shaylinjoneshair #easybreezy @lifetimetv #beachesmovie #january2017 😘
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5. ✨True love ✨📸: @jessiemarrerophotography
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7. Today was not easy..but by the grace of God we all got through it. Words cannot express our gratitude for all of your Prayers, Positive thoughts and Support for us throughout the years. Tommy will be missed but most certainly never forgotten...And PLEASE don't ask "Where's Martin?.." he was there too...just not in this picture. Lol! God bless you all.. #LoveConquersAll #MartinShow
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12. Today's #SNAPJACK is brought to you by @yazzthegreatest 😂😂😂💋💋💋
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13. Damn girl you kinda old to be headed to the Go Go. You coming in at the age they leaving. LMAO
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16. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ONE OF THE BIGGEST LEGENDS IN OUR HIPHOP HISTORY! @snoopdogg CONTINUED BLESSING AND LOVE FAMILY!!!!! REAL OG!
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17. Thank you for a beautiful night VSU! Let's do it again! #HOMECOMING
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18. Had a great time this morning with my familia Erica, Griff & Truth!!
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21. Bae #retailtherapy
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23. When my husband is my personal 'hype-man'! it kills me every time! 💜😂 #WHATNOW #lostfiles📷
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24. Diggy Simmons
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27. 💋 .. When the friendship is easy like Sunday morning. ☀️
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28. Sunday mornings are the best........... hugs and cuddles with my angel
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31. Nothing I would rather be doing... Rocko setting up our movie, Romelō working on a puzzle & Laiyah singing and sharing all she's learning at school... I'm so grateful for the joy they've brought into my life ... Praying for peace , joy & love in the home of EVERY family ♥️ #HeadScarfPJSunday LOL 😂
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