Shine On Ladies!

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  • Some people think that celebrities shouldn’t be role models, that role models should be parents, teachers and people who play a part in children’s every day lives.  But let’s face it, many people, me included can point to various ways that famous people have had impacts on our lives.

    Since it’s Women’s History Month, it’s a good a time as any to pay homage to two amazing women from different generations.

    Let’s start with American author and poet Maya Angelou.  Her accomplishments speak volumes. She has published six autobiographies, five books of essays, several books of poetry, and is credited with a list of plays, movies, and television shows spanning more than fifty years. As her poem eloquently states, she is “a woman. Phenomenally.  Phenomenal woman.” That’s her.

    But she’s special to me for more than just that.

    I met Ms. Angelou on a field trip with my 8th grade English class.  She was in St. Louis to deliver a lecture about expressing your passion through writing. As a budding writer, I was more than engaged … I was enthralled.  She delivered the information as only a storyteller of her caliber would … in lilting eloquence that kept her young audience captivated.

    During the small meet and greet that followed, I was able to speak with Ms. Angelou and shake her hand. She asked me the expected questions and just as I was ready to move on, she gripped my hand a little tighter and said,  “You are a girl with something to say. I see it and one day every one else will too.”

    The fact that the moment is still frozen in my 13 year old brain became evident when I interviewed Ms. Angelou for the first time. I cried the entire time.  Not only did her words change the way I saw myself, but changed the way I carried myself. I was a girl/woman with something to say and I still am.  It has shaped my career, my passion, my life.  I will forever be grateful to Ms. Angelou for her generosity and grace.

    It should be a reminder to all of us that if positive words can have such a lasting effect, imagine how negative words can break a young girl’s spirit, and sometimes that brokenness can last a life time.

    As women, whether we’re talking to little girls, teenagers or our peers, we should recognize the power of our words and make sure we’re doing more building up than tearing down.   We act like it’s our nature to throw shade on the accomplishments of other women who are doing well when in reality, it’s a combination of insecurity and envy.

    Last week, CNN announced that Soledad O’Brien’s morning show “Starting Point,” had been canceled. Her presence will be missed not only because she was bright, energetic and not afraid to “go there,” with guests who often just didn’t get it, but because she was an example of someone who worked hard and paid her dues.

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    2. As i aim to understand my history one book ,(the first i read in this journey of self renewal) was “the destruction of african civilzation” it was astounding to learn of the great society my ancestors once created and managed , it is the bluprint for today’s society. as i read i began to understand in a way never imagined. we were at war fighting against being eradicated and enslaved. as the men were away fighting the women of our society were running the nation and making sure there was a place to believe and fight for while conducting home and guiding the children , sound fimilar it is how are people are living now. the war continues in a much more insidious form , the amount of guns , drugs and despair in our communities is alarming and being from chicago born and raised i have grown to not only understand but witness how they get here. i am old enough to understand and guide our youth but young enough to have the vigor to express what i feel is the true plight in our community.i was raised by my grandmother who took me in after my mothers death, she was in her sixtys and i was three. it is not possible for a women to raise a boy to manhood but she can create a human being of great moral and spiritual wealth. (another aspect of our struggle) she came to america as an endentured slave with the goal to bring all her children here from the west indies. she is my direct connection to our history. as a boy she puzzled me because she would often speak of her past and cry, i didn’t understand her anger her fustration and some of the tales she would tell (and she spoke aloud but not directly to me) about the past i now know is my oral history. the situation we face is not isolated to one issue it is a combonation of all current discussions. from travon martin to our voter rights , from the child being taught he was concidered a commodity and not human the forms of racial injustice that now exsist today were hidden but since the election of our president there has been outright racism and we have become we move forward we as a people MUST embrace and learn ALL OF OUR HISTORY TO UNDERSTAND WHY WE ARE WHERE WE ARE AT THIS VERY MOMENT IN TIME.and more importantly the keys to HELP OURSELVES.

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