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Former NFL quarterback Kordell Stewart joined the Tom Joyner Morning Show to give his side of his very publicized divorce from “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star Porsha Stewart; including, who really asked for the divorce first, whether he’s controlling or not, and he answers the question everyone has been asking: Is he gay?

According to Kordell, the couple is set to go to trial on November 21, 2013 to officially end their 22-month marriage. Read the entire interview below.

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TOM JOYNER:  Kordell, are you there?

KORDELL STEWART:  I’m here.

TOM JOYNER:  Oh, there he is.  Okay.

KORDELL STEWART:  I’ve been here, man.  I’ve been saying hello the whole time.  What the hell going on over there?

TOM JOYNER:  I’m sorry, I’m sorry, Kordell.

SYBIL WILKES :  No, let’s start with you.  What the hell is going on over there?

TOM JOYNER:  Whoa!

KORDELL STEWART:  Oh, that’s a good one.  I appreciate that.  That’s a good one.  I’m doing all right, y’all.  I’m doing all right.  How’s everybody.

TOM JOYNER:  You’re doing all right now?  Okay.  Okay.  I just want to start by saying, Kordell, I do not endorse this mess, because I know you want to clear things up.  You’re walking into, oh my, do you know what you – okay, Sybil, you first.

SYBIL WILKES :  Kordell.

KORDELL STEWART:  Yes?

SYBIL WILKES :  What is going on?  Why don’t you just tell us quickly, because all of this mess started, and of course, it was on one of the top television shows in all of this, was your marriage in trouble before you got into Real Housewives of Atlanta?

KORDELL STEWART:  Yeah, pretty much it was.  It was going in the direction that as the man of our family; I really didn’t like where it was going.  You know, you had too many voices on my marriage because of other people’s past, whether it’s a mom, and as you saw, from what I’ve seen, people mentioned to me, because I don’t watch the show, that she didn’t want her daughter to have happen to her what she had happen to her in her marriage.  And I’m like, you know, when you move forward in your life, you know, your children, you never want to inject or mention anything about what happened in your past to allow your daughter or son to be able to have a prosperous marriage.  Because what most parents do is they take whatever happened in their past and they inflict it in their kids by sometimes expressing themselves a little too much.

SYBIL WILKES :  But you all have only been married since 2011, right?

KORDELL STEWART:  It was 22 months to be exact.  Twenty-two months to be exact.  Well, let me put it to you this way, guys.  Let me steer it in this direction.  You know, I tried to be the best husband I could be to my wife.  I mean when you hear all the stuff on the show, from what I’ve seen and heard …

SYBIL WILKES :  Because you look pretty controlling.

KORDELL STEWART:  No, I’m not controlling, I’m just a man.  And all I try to do is support my wife.  You know, and …

SYBIL WILKES :  It didn’t look like you were supporting her in that either.

KORDELL STEWART:  When did you see that?  On an edited show?

SYBIL WILKES :  Yeah, that’s the only part we’ve seen, we don’t know the inside.

KORDELL STEWART:  Are you asking me?  Or do you want to determine what you saw?

J. ANTHONY BROWN:  I like that, that’s right, that’s right.  Tell her.

KORDELL STEWART:  I mean, what do you want from me?  Because I know you coming from a female perspective…

SYBIL WILKES :  Okay, my name is Sybil, not Porsha.  I’m just saying all I want to do is …

KORDELL STEWART:  But you’re talking at me, you’re not talking to me – talk to me …

J. ANTHONY BROWN:  Let the man answer, Sybil.

KORDELL STEWART:  Let me talk to you.  When you, when I go out of my way to take care of my wife, I have an obligation and a responsibility to take care of my wife.  Regardless of an edited scene on a television, that’s Bravo’s job, to create what they create.  And when you saw the scene where I let her go to Vegas and LA, that was not the case.  I knew my wife was going on a trip with the girls regardless, because that was a part of the show.

All I asked was text me, let me know you made it, she did.  It went from there.  So when they came back from supposedly going to a strip club, my wife called me on the phone and said, babe they’re mad at me because I didn’t go to the strip club.  I said; why didn’t you go and have a good time with the girls?  Get on the stripper pole like everybody else would do.  And she said; well, I just didn’t want to go.  I said; well, they mad at you because you didn’t want to go?  I said; well, I’m 100 percent in with you, because you didn’t want to go.  That’s on you.

SYBIL WILKES :  I get that, I get that.  I get all of that about the editing and how you’re presented and everything.  When it comes down to a television marriage, a marriage that is shown on television and social media.  Is it true that you asked for a divorce using social media?

KORDELL STEWART:  No, I did not.  What I did, what my wife did many times at the house is, because she was coming home 3 or 4 o’clock in the morning.  I have a ten-year-old kid here that I was granted custody of, primary custody of my son at this house at ten years old.  When you’re in the streets after 10, 11 o’clock, 12 o’clock, 1 o’clock, 2 o’clock, 3 o’clock, 4 o’clock in the morning and we haven’t communicated the entire day, and when you come home and I ask you a question, if you’re my wife and I ask you a question; honey, what’s the deal?  Why are you coming home so late?  My son asked me; dad, is mom coming home?  I have an obligation to answer this kid.  Now what do I tell this kid when I don’t know where my wife because we’re not talking.

SYBIL WILKES :  What did you tell him?

KORDELL STEWART:  So when the response is, I said; she’ll be home in a minute, I think she’s working.  That’s all I can say.  I can’t lie.  I don’t know what’s going on, so I’m just going to give him that, thinking that’s what she’s doing.

SYBIL WILKES :  So was it more than staying out late that led to the divorce.  Obviously there were other issues.

KORDELL STEWART:  So when she responded to me, she responded to me saying, I do what I want to do, I’m grown.  I said; you’re grown?  I said, come on, baby, you can’t do that.  I said; this little boy is in the house.  We can’t do that.  That’s not how it goes.  Come on, talk with me, communicate with me.  This is not good.  So it got to the point where she done it a few more times.  And I said; Porsha, we can’t do this.  She said, well, you know what to do.  I said; what you mean you know what to do?  Well, file for divorce.

SYBIL WILKES :  So she suggested that.  And you?

KORDELL STEWART:  So this is her suggestion.  So when she suggested it the third time, she came back, she said; file for divorce because I don’t have nothing to lose.  She said; the problem is, I don’t have money to file for divorce.

SYBIL WILKES :  Where did the gay rumors come from, Kordell?

KORDELL STEWART:  Well, let me say this about these gay rumors.  I heard some stuff on the show where my wife didn’t give a definitive answer on when the girls ask her this question, and neither did the mom about the image and all this stuff.

Let me give it to you like there here.  When I gave my wife this six and a half, seven carat yellow diamond ring I wasn’t gay. When I said I’m giving my wife this million dollar wedding, he wasn’t gay.  When I financed her entire wardrobe, from top to bottom, travel included, I wasn’t gay.  When I put her mama on a first class flight, with me and my wife down to Miami, to help her daughter pick a gown, neither one of them had nothing to say.  I wasn’t gay.  Okay?

When the wife, when her mama came in this house and wanted to have Thanksgiving dinner here, and we travel on the road to see the in-laws or the other family and be at family reunions, I wasn’t gay.  But as soon as I don’t want her daughter, no more.  As soon as I want to move on with my life, because I don’t want to be with her daughter no more… Now I’m gay.

J. ANTHONY BROWN:  Now you’re gay.  Now you’re gay.

TOM JOYNER:  Now you’re gay.

J. ANTHONY BROWN:  You won that one, man.

TOM JOYNER:  Yeah.  All right.

J. ANTHONY BROWN:  You the winner, you got it.  You got it.

KORDELL STEWART:  Does that answer that question?

TOM JOYNER:  Yes.

J. ANTHONY BROWN:  You got it, man.

TOM JOYNER:  Kordell …

J. ANTHONY BROWN:  You got it, Kordell.

TOM JOYNER:  You answered that question.

J. ANTHONY BROWN:  You got it, Kordell.

SYBIL WILKES :  Kordell, are you divorced now?

KORDELL STEWART:  We’ll be divorced; we go to trial on the 21st of November.

83 thoughts on “Kordell Stewart: ‘When I Gave My Wife This Six and a Half, Seven Carat Yellow Diamond Ring, I Wasn’t Gay’

  1. feeleffect on said:

    The editing did show a controlling spirit in Cordell BUT coming home at 3 a.m. and 4 a.m. and you are married is FOUL! She never told that side of the story. She had a spoiled little girl spirit inside of her as well. The foundation of a marriage to make it work is the second commandment “love ye one another as you love yourself”. Clearly this was violated in this and and all failed marriages. He answered the gay thing for you to figure it out. I don’t believe he is gay, I believe she’s hurt and spreading that rumor to get back at him because her financial free ride is over.

  2. baybek8s on said:

    They both were trying to con each other and they both got conned. Porsha wanted a “Sugar Daddy” so she could live the easy life and Kordell wanted a “Trophy wife” so he could stop the gay whispers.

  3. If the Queens saying you gay, brutha I believe it. The rumors were out there before we knew anything about a divorce. And just reading this interview, I can tell his a$$ controlling….I recognize the tone and the language. Sarcastic and patronizing. That’s right Sybil…you ain’t Porsha so he needs to recognize. Ain’t that much editing in the world and I ain’t blind. That mofo controlling. But one thing about it, it don’t even matter any more. I’m glad she didn’t have any children from his funny-looking behind and her beautiful self will find another man when her heart is healed and she’s ready to move on.

    • First, I really don’t like the fraze “He let me” she isn’t a child she is grown her mother and father did that already, and as for her going out with the girls, what’s wrong with that? I see nothing, he goes out with the boys?(girls) or what ever. I don’t believe it was marriage to start with!! None of us really knows what went on in their home, but trust and believe he did post it out there like a true outragous bit$%. So with that said why was her wedding dress all messed??. I’m just saying

  4. Yeah! Kordell you still did not answer that gay question….Even if you did do all the stuff you did for her for your wedding it was also for you, she was soon to be a woman of wanting to do her own thing she’s young and she is her own woman and she was not going to be like you met her for ever, And also being on the show and as you say people getting in her ear, she changed But even if you are gay come out to yourself but don’t let that for colored girl Janet Jackson scene be acted out in your life…..God bless you and your marriage.

  5. I was married for three years with out any child,because of this my husband start acting very strange at home,coming home late and not spending time with me any more.So i became very sad and lost in life because my doctor told me there is no way for me to get pregnant this really make life so hard for me and my family.my sister in law told me about Dr.Sango from the Internet,how he has helped people with this similar problem that i am going through so i contacted him and explain to him.he cast a spell and it was a miracle three days later my husband can back to apologize for all he has done and told me he is fully ready to support me in any thing i want,few month later i got pregnant and gave birth to twins (girls) we are happy with ourselves. Thanks to Dr Sango for saving my relationship and for also saving others too. continue your good work, If you are interested to contact him and testify this blessings like me, the great spell caster email address is:sangospelltemple@gmail.com

  6. Shelia on said:

    Sybil you started the interview with an attitude. You need to work on your interviewing skills there is a way you can communicate without being rude.

  7. I think everyone man has the right to chose the type of women he wants. The man is suppose to be head of household. The man is suppose to be the one who chooses a wife. If Porsha married Kordell under the agreement to be a stay at home mother/wife, then she has broken the agreement. She had to know that Kordell was the type of man who runs his household from dating him. It sounds like they had agree before marriage to have children and Porsha was to be a stay at home wife/mother. I think Kordell is right to divorce Porsha if they can’t agree on that issue and Porsha has changed her mind.

  8. marshall on said:

    Im just glad some one finally told that sybil wilkes where to go . way to go kordell, she just angry no brother want her tore up self.

  9. herman on said:

    Kordell , be the man that you want to or not be, forget these black women who know nothing about being a partner of a committed relationship……..get someone that know the meaning of :PARTNERSHIP”

  10. adrianealex1 on said:

    Kunta is a controlling douchebag. There is no way in the world that I believe that he divorced her for being out all night…He was controlling from day one of the atl housewives, “you can never win when you dirty Kunta!!!

  11. motorfingaz on said:

    “KORDELL STEWART: So when she responded to me, she responded to me saying, I do what I want to do, I’m grown. I said; you’re grown? I said, come on, baby, you can’t do that. I said; this little boy is in the house. We can’t do that. That’s not how it goes. Come on, talk with me, communicate with me. This is not good. So it got to the point where she done it a few more times. And I said; Porsha, we can’t do this. She said, well, you know what to do. I said; what you mean you know what to do? Well, file for divorce.”

    Kordell is a lying dog!! Porsha isn’t that type of woman to say things like that! Lying Dog!

    • This is such a simple minded post!!! So did you post this all by yourself??? Do you REALLY KNOW PORSHA??? You really need to stop and think before you put someone on a pedestal… You have no idea what someone is capable of do you???

  12. DeePierce on said:

    Kerdell is a big liar! He loved to control Porsha, the show didn’t lie. He told her she could not have a baby and a career; she went to therapy with him and cried her heart out and saying he was not there for her when she lost their baby. Throughout the whole show you could see he was a control freak! Liar liar!

  13. Sexy Leroy on said:

    I believe dis nigga. The first word out of black bitches mouths when a broth don’t holla or they get sent on their way is “you gay!” “you gay!” Kordell needs to go get him some Snow or an Asian and be rid of all bullShlt!

    • LEROY: you don’t have to go there against your MOTHER!!!, your SISTER, your GRANDMOTHER, your AUNTS…….a Black woman brought you into this world; changed your stinky diapers for yrs…you don’t have the right to disk your MOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      • Sexy Leroy on said:

        The truth hurts, eh nigga? The fact is, them hoes was on crack and in the streets! I had an uncle and his (white) wife take me in!

      • @Leroy; HONOR Thy Father & Thy MOTHER is a DIRECT ORDER from GOD does not EXEMPT you. Leroy, my mother dropped me off at an adoption center at 2 yrs, of age; have not seen her since-GOD knows, now at the age of 67 yrs. I can say before GOD that I have never, ever had ill feelings against my mother. Leroy, to violate that previous Commandment from GOD, you will ALWAYS have a DARK CLOUD over you….it’s not easy for a woman to give-up her baby, whether she is black or white. You have passed judgment against your mother, which is GOD’s territory or jurisdiction. Judge & ye shall be judged saith GOD.

  14. Me thinks he doth protest too much. These rumors have been going on since 1995, it’s why he left the Steelers,his answers are practiced and he’s a master at NOT answering. What the H— do the karats of a ring have to do with his sexual preference.. Come on man, you were looking for a naive women to care for your child when you got custody and being arm candy didn’t hurt. She qualified for both. I love her to death, but she doesn’t have a CLUE. I wish Porcha well and I know she will be fine, lesson learned, LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE, GIRL, we’ll all be watching you. Its your turn to SHINE.

  15. He avoided the gay question. He could have said NO I am not gay but he skirted around the question. Typical way for a man to avoid lying and telling the truth.

  16. I do not watch reality shows so I was clueless when I heard TJMS mention Kordell and Porsha. After looking at the picture above and searching online photos, I cannot help but believe that Porsha is a male entertainer. So, perhaps Kordell is gay and married another man dressed in female garb.

  17. As my grandmother would say “something in the milk ain’t clean”. Why now Kordell? Alot of times men have trophy wives to deflect rumors of their sexuality. I questioned Kordell’s sexuality when I saw how he interacted with his stylist on one episode. I said then what in the world has Porsha gotten herself into. Any man that has to brag on the material things that he purchased out of love is suspect…. It almost sounds like hush money! On the episode that we saw edited or not one fact remained in all of them Porsha stayed calling Kordell!!!! I was like omg if she calls this man one more time. I think Kordell was use to a certain life and lifestyle and really didn’t want anything to get to close to the truth. That’s just my opinion. Either way I’m praying for all parties involved. Also what is a 10 year old doing up at 1, 2, 3, 4 am in the morning daddy???? Kordell needs to stop!!!!! This is to much…. Lord help them

    • the Timekeeper on said:

      Hhmmm, Kordell’ story didnt pass the smell test, what my Grandma would say, lord help him. Gee Whiz thats a whole lot of innuendo. I would say the Lord does need to help somebody but it isnt Kordell. It is people with so much hate in their heart that they would accuse someone because as they put it, it doesnt sound right. The very first words out of Sybill Wilkes mouth this morning was “What the Hell is going on over there. Not, good morning, not, how are you, but What the Hell. that is a heck of a way for anyone to have a conversation. under the circumstances, He spoke very well. If Tom Joyner had any kind of backbone he would have told Sybill to chill. I would like to see any of you be able to speak with clarity and defend yourself from that kind of verbal assault ( on noational radio) no less and then say it doesnt pass your own personal smell test. I am surprised he spoke at all. and he did so with clarity and conviction unlike Sybill who came with a whole lot of hate that many here are blindly following. Ted Cruz would be proud of you, just believe anything I say.

  18. Anette Farnell on said:

    I’m sorry Cordell’s story didn’t pass the smell test. We all know that ATL is still the capital of the down-low and if Porcha was wilding out like that she would not have had a problem going to the strip club.

  19. I cant help but notice how everyone on this post is pretending like Porsha and Kordell are an isolated incident and there isn’t an on going rift between black men and women. We have to get too the root of the problem because arguing over varied incidents doesn’t solve anything. Black men and women did not come to this country at odds nor were they at odds during the Black Power and civil rights movement, An enemy came in and redefined our relationship towards each other and its time we kicked them out. Black men never oppressed black women there were female heads of state in Africa the male female fight belongs to the European and we need to give it back to them. However when we do we must leave their ideology and philosophy alone. Women dominating men is against nature we must come back to the divine order that we all claim to believe in.

  20. the Timekeeper on said:

    It is amazing how so many willingly believe these rumors. and yet, if someone was to accuse them of something they would be kicking and screaming. Kordell ( or any brother for that matter) could shut donw a rumor a thousand times and people will still believe it anyway. Gossip it to the mind, what pig feet is to the body. Yeah, it may taste good but your arteries are being poisoned. In this case, it is your mind that is poisoned.

  21. Kordell is absolutely correct. There have been rumors of him being gay since his NFL days, but she didn’t seem to be concerned about that when she went for the karats and moved into the big house.

  22. Wildflower on said:

    Kordell did address and answer the question about his sexuality but I guess it just went over some of your heads. His sexuality is his business. It’s funny how men become “gay” all of a sudden when he don’t want you no more. But what does it say about the accuser is the REAL question and conversation piece. Is Porsha into gay men? They were dating long enough for her to have notice these things so why did she go ahead with a marriage? Not all men are dumb stuck by a fat ass. He don’t want you move on. Those allegations say more about the person speaking them than it does about the person they are saying them about. And just for the sake of argument, if he is gay, black women need to stop being so desperate to have a man that you don’t do your homework to know these things before you drop your panties. Problem solved!

    • So Kordell is just supposed to let her roll in at all hours of the night with no explanation AND he hasn’t spoken to her all day? You know you would be ready to throw some grits on a man for that.

  23. Wow the Black man is doomed in America. So its better for his wife to be on that filthy show that exemplifies all the negative black women stereotypes than for him to have a traditional marriage? So if a man leads his home he’s controlling and if he walks away he’s a no good deadbeat? Black women really need to get off of this feminist kick it didn’t work for white women and they invented it. So for all you “independent strong black women” remember every time you say that you are promoting the white female and degrading your self.

    • DAMN YOU TELLIN THE TRUTH!!! WHen you get married, there is NO MORE INDEPENDENT ANYTHING!!! Black women complain about there not being any strong black men who can be the heads of the house. Now when there is one, there is a complaint about that. Do you want a man to be the leader of the house or a man YOU can lead and run over? I respect Kordell for wanting to “wear the pants” and be the leader of the house. I thought that is what black women wanted????

      • AS LONG AS the man is respectful and not abusive. Doesn’t sound like Kordell was any of this? Who knows, for rating Porcha may claim he beat her next!!!

      • @dtown: Kordell comes-off like a DRILL SARGENT void of any AFFECTION & TENDERNESS, which ERODES your point of view.

      • Ty
        You and I probably disagree about this part. I don’t think he came across like that. I think he comes across as a man who wanted a real marriage and wanted to communicate with his wife about something he felt wasn’t right. I think Porcha just wasn’t ready for a man like Kordell. She is still young and wants to do her own thing, hang out and live the glam life. If you consider that to be a drill sargent, then so be it. So if he says nothing, then what does that make him? A ponk? A weak man? A sucka?

      • @ dtown: It’s the TONE & TENOR of his voice/attitude; you don’ talk DOWN to another human being in the manner of his PIT-BULL-STYLE. From my perspective he comes-off like a BULLY.

      • True dat, but who knows if his tone during this interview this morning was the same tone/attitude he had when things actually went down? It could have been worse or better. If he did actually do that, then its wrong. if that did happen, could it be that Porcha was so consumed with hanging out and doing her own thing so much that Kordell had to start talking like that to try to get her to hear him? if ole girl was repeatedly coming in late, but not tell me why, eventually I would take on an agressive tone myself. Not abusing her or anything, but standing up for myself and my marriage. I guess I just look at it a little differently. If hid tone was like that, maybe there was a valid reason why. Not just because he is being controlling by his nature.

    • Wildflower on said:

      So you let one chicken head dictate what you think about all black women? Typical of the black man that has never supported the black woman from the start. So I guess if that one or few black women that do not know how to appreciate a man is all black women then it’s safe to say those hundreds of thousands of deadbeat father that are out running the streets killing one another with guns over streets and corners that belong to neither instead of helping to raise the kids they created is all black men? Get a grip. That misguided young lady no more represent me than those losers represent you. But keep the divide between us going and it will be.

  24. I do agree with the part about him not addressing the rumors of if he is gay or not. He at least had the chance to make it clear EITHER way. He did not. It doesn’t really matter in the big picture if he is gay or not. That is his choice. BUT, if he is and he hid it from Porcha and got married, THAT ain’t cool. So he would have some blame if that were true. Porcha also would have some blame if she had any reservations or thoughts that he could be gay. Does ANY woman STILL marry a man and have some doubts/questions about his sexuality? Either he is NOT gay and she is saying evil stuff to get ratings and she is bitter OR he is gay and she married him for the wrong reasons. WHICH is it? EIther way, there is enough blame to go around with this one!!!

  25. I THINK THIS MARRIGE WAS SOUR ON BOTH SIDES THAT’S WHY IT EMPLODED. SHE WAS NOT READY TO HANLE A STRONG WILLED HUSBAND LIKE KORDEL. PORSHA IS STILL YOUNG IN MIND AND WAS NOT ABLE TO DEAL WITH MARRIGE TO A MAN THAT HAS AN “ALPHA MALE” MENTALITY. KORDEL, DOES NOT KNOW HOW TO BE COMMUNICATIVE IN A WAY TO PORSHA TO KEEP HER FEELING LIKE SHE IS “SUBMISSIVE” AND WEAK. IN A GOOD MARRIGE, EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY. ALSO RESPECT, PIRORITY, AND UNDERSTANDING AND PATIENCE. THIS MARRIGE HAD NONE OF THAT. ALSO, MEDDLING INLAWS ADDS TO THAT TOO.

  26. Sybil was very disrespectful and rude to Kordell she acted like it was her child he broke up with. A guy can’t win if he was going up side her head for coming home at 3 in the morning he would be a bully. So he said I don’t want to be in this marriage anymore and he still a bad guy woman do it all the time and take the kids…I keep hearing the term her career he had and has no career the only title we know her to have is Kordell’s wife. once she stops talking about him she off the show.

  27. the Timekeeper on said:

    Reading thie transcript is very different from hearing the actual interview on radio. Kordell Stewart tore a new asshole into Sybil Wilkes this morning. Sybil tried to come with her usual male hate rhetoric and put Kordell down. But he held his own ( which men rarely get to do in these type interviews) and then told her do you want to attack me, or talk at me, or are you going to LEt ME answer You!!! Which is when he went into his sylloque about Porsche’s gay attack. In Short, Kordell put Sybil down, Emphatically! Now you can take sides all you want ( Based on gender unfortunately which is how these things go) So you can say down low and all this and that. Fine but you dont know that. Its just your take because some prefer to believe that. I guess it is just to juicy or sensational for some tp pass up. There is his side, her side, and lastly, GOD’s side; so take your pick. Personally, I prefer God’s side. One thing I do know for sure, after listening to this interview on the drive to work today. and that is that Sybil needs some Preperation H, cause he told her butt off.

    • You are right. I love Sybil to death, but you can tell she went into that interview with the intent to make him look bad. Kordell came across as a real man who was trying to be a good husband (real man). It is true that you never heard Porcha say anything about him being gay before the divorce. If you take you mind back and read some of the interviews, Kordell was the best thing since sliced bread. Now that they are getting a divorce AND she is on this aweful show, he is gay. I do think Kordell COULD have just came out and addressed the rumors. But if he choses not to, that is his business. I don’t think Kordell was controlling, it sounds like Porcha just wanted to do her own thing and Kordell wasn’t having it!! When you are married, you can’t stay out to 3am a lot and not communicate with your spouse. AND their are kids living in the house. COME ON!!! THAT is not controlling, that is wanting to be married for real.

      • Yes, she does!!! She has been doing this so long, you have to wonder if she thinks she can now do or say anything. Even cutting Tom off when he is talking and insulting his intelligence with some of her statements.

    • stephanie on said:

      the Timekeeper…you hit the nail on the head. I was thinking that as well when I was listening this morning. Sybil went in on him like it was personal, but he held his own. Sometimes she gets on my nerves with that “male bashing” ish. “All men are not bad men, so stop grouping them all together because you’ve had a bad experience”!

  28. KORDELL GAY??? He continues to stress he “wasn’t gay”, what about, ARE you CURRETNLY gay? And prior to the marriage & during the marriage did he have any same sex encounters?

    • Sybil never asked him that question. I thought for sure she would ask the simple question, “Kordell, would you like to answer the simple question everyone is wondering are you or are you not gay”.

    • Tara Scott-Brown on said:

      I believe Kordell controlling behind is “A Gay”. LOL Glad Porsha was able to get out of it only 2 years in it. Too many women stay married to these jokers who know they are switch hitters. Good riddance Kordell!!!!

  29. Diamonet on said:

    Kordell sounds like a liar. As controlling as he was, I doubt very serious if she was staying out ALL night and he didn’t blacken her eye. Remember how he threaten her if she didn’t stand up to the other ladies on the show.

  30. Sybil was adversarial with the man. Angry black female mentality. Decent brothers don’t want nor need the drama or the crazies. Sounds to me like the man is trying to raise his son and his wife is a skank. Women like her will end up with the thug/criminal, the hoe-dog or the no-job loser. She and her gold-digging mama need to leave the man alone and move on.

  31. He is still a controlling ass. If she didn’t want to divorce him she should now. Just because he did all of that does not mean that he is not gay. By the way, Porsha is not the first person to question Kordell’s sexuality and he still did not answer the question.

      • The question of “are you gay” was never asked. Sybil asked him to address why would Porcha say those things. I liked his answer. If Porcha thought he was gay or had any kind of thought about it, she should have addressed that before the marriage. You don’t marry a guy and think he is gay. Unless you are marrying him for the wrong reasons. Kordell’s sexuality has been questioned in the past. I’m sure Porcha knew that, so why would she marry him? Either it was confirmed to her that he was not gay or she still married him for the wrong reasons. It sounds like maybe Porcha was a little bit of a gold digger and wanted to marry a guy who could give her nice things. Now she is bitter, so now he is gay, blah, blah, blah.

      • She explained on the show that she did address the gay rumors and he explained it away. He is saying a lot of things and she is saying a lot of things, but only an ass that would bring up what he provided doing the marriage. Why does the world need to know how much he spent for a ring? Does the the things he gave her give him the right to bark orders at her, and no, it was not just how the show perceived it, look at how he talked to Sybil. That’s what journalist do, if you don’t like the way they interview you, don’t go on the show. He has a right to adress the rumors, but he has said a lot of mean things about her as well. Again her never said, let me put this to rest for once and for all “I am not gay”! Doesn’t matter if he is or insn’t, he still has said he is not.

  32. If he is gay, she knew when she married him. And the way Sybil was talking to him, he should have responded that way. Women need to get past their own bitterness and pain before lashing it out on others. This man did nothing to her.

  33. blackspeak on said:

    Now women have a new weapon against men who don’t give them what they want, or leave them for whatever reason. He’s gay… How do you defend against that allegation… All he can say is, I’m not gay…

  34. I love it. I beleive Kordell is telling the truth.. I never believe Porsha.. She always try to play a role and I am so happy that he speak out and I dont blame him.. Porsha come home at that time a morning and you are married .. you are doing something you dont suppose to be doing! Right on Kordell I am on your team .. Team Kordell..

    • Kim

      I hear ya!..anyway, how does one respect or give merit to one that is clueless that there are 365 days in a year, and not 260 days as Porsha stated in one of the episode of RHOA…NeNe blasted her on that.

  35. Cherie on said:

    “Talk to me not at me”….That’s the same thing my controlling estranged husband said to me. Thanks some punk type stuff. Those punk a$$ men can’t tolerate a women having a backbone. I left my punk a$$ husband. I’m glad Porsha left Kordell’s punk controlling a$$. We women deserve better.

  36. I still didn’t hear the answer to the question. Just because you di all of that, does not mean you are not gay or on the down low. And..how can a woman who didn’t want to go to a strip club, hang out all night? The two don’t match. I just see many holes in his story.

    • Lisa Gilliam on said:

      Net, I thought I was the only one, he left way to much out. He can do much better than that. This whole situation is messy.

  37. Well this is not what we saw during the show. Did he even really want to have a baby with her? I think he wanted her to stay home all the time because when she wanted to a career he was telling her no.

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