4. Make her feel comfortable.
When a woman is comfortable with the person she is with, she feels cared for. Once this happens, barriers begin to be let down and the woman underneath the protective shell begins to shine through. Take her to a place that offers a space of security and on the drive over, make sure to be cautious on the road and limit road rage. Getting her to and from the date location safely makes her aware of your ability to be a protector, and that is a major trait that every woman looks for in a man. When she knows that she will be safe with you her comfort level raises, making it easier for you to capture her interests and possibly a piece of her heart on the first date.
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5. Chivalry is not dead.
No matter how independent she is, a woman appreciates a man with manners. Being on time, opening doors, helping with getting in and out of coats, pulling out chairs and picking up the tab are all etiquette behaviors from the past that should still be practiced today. These acts show a woman that a man is polite, attentive and a take charge kind of a guy. A woman wants to feel like a lady, and in an age where many men forget this crucial fact, being a man that holds true to chivalry will give you a winning spot every time. There are some women who have never been treated with the aforementioned respect during a dating situation. To separate yourself from the rest of who have failed in the past, be the gentleman that she desires and work your way to gaining that number one space in her heart!
Dating doesn’t have to be a chore or intimidating once one knows the proper way to approach the initial meeting. Once you’ve gotten over the first date jitters and you see that smile on her face after the evening has ended, you can rest assured that you will be hearing from her again.
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Glamazon Tyomi is a freelance writer, model and sex educator with a deeply rooted passion for spreading the message of sex positivity and encouraging the masses to embrace their sexuality. Her website, www.sexperttyomi.com, reaches internationally as a source for advice and information for the sexually active/curious. Follow her on Twitter at @glamazontyomi.
5 Things Every Man Should Consider When Planning A First Date was originally published on blackdoctor.org
