There are hundreds of sex positions that one can choose from, each one providing a different type of stimulation, but when it comes to building a bond between you and your lover, there are a few basic positions and their variations that can create the intimacy that is often missing in sexual situations. Eye contact, bodily closeness and focusing on the energy of your partner are the key ingredients in establishing that tenderness necessary to take a sexual experience from mundane and emotionless to deep and even spiritual. Here are three of the best positions that I suggest to build intimacy within your relationships.
Spooning
Spooning is the perfect position to transition from a late night cuddle session into a hot and steamy sexual experience! Spooning puts the bodies of you and your partner into close contact, creating a level of intimacy that only real lovers can enjoy and appreciate. Be aware of how warm your partner feels and how their body rises and falls back to rest during breathing. Being aware in the moment will bring you into a new awareness of your partner.
Missionary
Any version of the missionary position is a great way to connect with your partner through eye contact and close bodily contact. In this position, lovers have the ability to gaze into each other’s eyes, exchange soft kisses and stroke each other’s face and hair in loving embraces while connected with each other. Keep eye contact while in motion to connect on a spiritual level, and speak words of adoration while in a locked gaze.
3 Of The Best Sex Positions For More Intimacy was originally published on blackdoctor.org
