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Has the question ‘I wonder what it would be like to date a white woman’ ever popped up into any of your heads? Are you the type of person that will strictly put down the possibility of even dating a white woman?  If that is you, then Steve Wilson of The D.L. Hughley Show wants to change your mind and have you, at least, considering it.

Now remember, this is all “according to Steve”, so feel free to disagree with what he thinks…because D.L. Hughley and Jasmine Sanders sure do.

Give it a listen, and see if you agree or disagree with Steve’s opinion.

Part 1.


Part 2.


10. They don’t wear weaves.

Well there seems to be mixed emotions on this one.  Steve, on one side, believes that white women do wear weaves.  However, D.L. and Jasmine think they do.  D.L. jokingly remarked by saying, “Yeah, but they don’t get theirs from swap meets or Asian stores.  They don’t do that.”

9. If you say, “B make me a sandwich”, you won’t get slapped.

Now we are not condoning you to say this to your lady, but Steve seems to believe if you are with a woman who is white and this does utter out of your mouth, then you will be safe.  Once again, we are not condoning.  But for all the men that do attempt this act, let us know if your lady actually did back-slap you in the face.

8. They don’t have their brothers beat you up if you get caught cheating.

This one is interesting; every sista seems to have that BIG swole brother who is just waiting for you to mess up.  But according to Steve, you will not have to worry about the BIG swole brother coming around.  D.L seemed to concur with this one by saying, “Oh yeah, because they accept it.”

7. They don’t consider you a failure if you live with your mother.

Jasmine comically thought that this one was obviously made up by Steve.  D.L responded by saying,” I consider you a failure if you live with your mother.”  Now if you’re a grown man, it is suggested you probably shouldn’t be living with your mother, but if you still do, it’d be accepted if you’re with a white woman, according to Steve.

6. They don’t think material success and physical attraction are everything.

It’s not all about the money, glitz, glamour and looks to white women.  But D.L strongly disagreed with Steve on this one, he said, “ Oh, yeah, you might want to tell all them NBA ex-wives that be suing people on TV.  Barry Bonds’ ex-wife, she might’ve thought that.  So I’m just saying.”

5. They don’t worship their pastors and judge their men by church attendance.

If you decide to skip church on Sunday’s, then do not expect to be judged by a white woman.  Steve believes that your white woman will not hold you to such a high standard like they do to their pastors.  But we all need church, so don’t let it become a habit.  Can we please get an amen?!?

4. They don’t chase after the thing they hate the most.

We’ll give you a second to digest this one because Steve went into his deep-intellect mode on this one.  Alright, so basically Steve was interpreting that sistas hate when men cheat on them, but yet, they still continue to pursue Black men.  While Jasmine felt what Steve said was interesting, D.L. seemed to jokingly think the opposite by saying, “That’s, that’s very dumb.  I don’t know what that’s all about.”

3. They understand that a woman can be independent without emasculating every man in her path.

Has anyone ever heard of an emasculating fan? D.L. was confused, but was corrected by Jasmine when she said while laughing, “Oh, you mean an oscillating fan.” Back on the topic though: Steve thinks this is an issue in Black women, but thinks you will have no worries about this when it comes to a white woman.

2. Being nice is not a crime.

Basically, Steve wants all the men to know that you can avoid dealing with all the mean sistas. D.L feels the same about some of the sistas. However, Jasmine disagrees by believing that it must only be the sistas from Steve’s hood. Whatever it is, Steve believes that all niceness will only come from a White woman.

1. They don’t blame all their problems on black men.

Steve must believe that Black women have a tendency to nag.  Jasmine responded by saying , “Now that didn’t come from me, let me just clarify for my sistas.”  We don’t blame Jasmine for clarifying, Steve could receive possible backlash from black women.  But hey, this is his list and what he feels.

Did he convince you to want to date a white woman?  Let us know what you think about the list in the comment section below.

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27 thoughts on “10 Reasons You Should Consider Dating a White Woman

    • This article is ridiculous but don’t generalize. That’s like saying all black women are nasty or uneducated, working at McDonald’s. Don’t be mean just bc you are feeling insecure to white women. You shouldn’t feel that way obviously. And before you try and deny it, and my response when you do deny it, YES you are.

    • This article is racist and you sound racist too. Days whatever color you want but not for these reasons but for love regardless of color. “Their own kind”?? Is she an alien? Not human? Because a human is “their own kind”. You want white ppl to treat black ppl equally but right now you are putting them each into two different categories. Either we’re all the same or were not!

  1. Here’s the number 1 reason that you should not: the dating/marriage is unbalanced however you slice it. Racist whites are the most progressive racists on Earth and in the majority! They do not mind their own businesses! Black men are enemy number 1(most of these racist whites somewhat tolerate you if you have a woman other than a white one), but they really, really hate you if you date white women or are married to a white woman! There are racist whites everywhere you go and some of them drink to get drunk(reducing inhibitions). The kkk and skinhead cults/outfits(and those that hate blacks–as the mob) still exist! And all it takes is 1 out of the sea of these people! Here’s some things that a black man in a BMWF relationship should not be at all surprised if they get: 1. filthy things put in their(you or kids) foods/drinks that they cannot detect. 2. filthy handshakes/hugs given to the man or his kids that can’t be detected. 3. hatred or a negative distinction made between the black man and his kids when compared with white in-laws and white kids throughout the family(can you imagine having to explain at Christmastime why your child gets a $7 gift while their white cousin gets a $50 gift when both of the kids have the same relationship to the person buying the gift?!). 4. if he is somewhat accepted, he is expected to be an Uncle Tom or to do more than his white in-laws. 5. he and his kids are at risk for BLACK MAGIC CURSES. 6. police profiling. 7. police attack. 8. police being overly strict and snide in dealing with the black man. 9. police murder. 10. racist teachers subtly mistreating and subtly giving LESSER grades than what your kids should make. 11. any Tom, Dick, and Harry hiding somewhere with a gun, as racist serial killer JP Franklin did. 12. “financial sanctioning”. IT’S UNBALANCED, BECAUSE WHITE WOMEN WILL NOT FACE NEARLY THE VENOM THAT THE BLACK MAN WILL(AND RARELY WILL SHE FACE ANY ACTION THAT EVEN RESEMBLES VIOLENCE DUE TO HER BEING BOTH WHITE AND A WOMAN)! Sadly, the white woman in certain BMWF relationships would be a great wife, but–whether she would or not–the problem is objective(has nothing to do with her or her relationship with her husband, but outsiders: her family and other whites and what they do to your family members)!

  2. Caydence James on said:

    No, he didn’t convince me that black men should give up on black women and head straight for white women but he did give me a few reasons to date a white man -or any other man but a black man. Who would want to date men that feel so negatively towards woman who not only look like him but relate to him more than any other woman in this world? If black man (or most of them) are this dumb then not only do I NOT want them but I don’t want to duplicate them by having their children. So good job on convincing me to bypass black men altogether Steve! Let the white chicks deal with all that! Deuces!

  3. This is just non sense, dating those white women cause they want a blow job.few black women that will do it.there moms are black women and they have grownnup around black women they entire life.good and bad in all women as well as men.just support your baby mothers instead of leaving them on the goverment.

  4. Kailyn on said:

    Brothers don’t need anymore encouragement to date outside of their race. They have it down packed. I would love to see the author find 10 reasons why brothers shouldn’t date white women. I’m sure he’ll claim he doesn’t have anything against sistas and love his mother, sisters, aunties, daughters, etc.

  5. Sherry Smith on said:

    My one reason for dating White men- the longest relationship I have ever had.
    So that list didn’t offend me at all.
    Yes, I am a Black woman.

  6. til I looked at the receipt for $5432 , I accept that…my… cousin had been truley bringing home money part-time on there computar. . there aunts neighbour had bean doing this for only about 1 year and just paid for the mortgage on their home and purchased BMW M3 . read more B­ A­ Y­ 9­ 1.­ C­ O­ M­

  7. We Owe It To Our Children on said:

    No wonder our children have no respect for us. This article is the type of leadership we are showing? How would a young African American girl feel about herself after being presented with this type of information. How would a young African American male feel about himself and about African American females. Some of us are some very disturbed people. We don’t have a clue. We have been destroyed by this racist system and we perpetrate it onto our own children. Devastating.

  8. Putting a column like this on a site like is a good enough reason to log off completely. I’m going to wait for at least one week, to see what happens to the conversation surrounding this article. I’m getting very frustrated with many of the articles posted on many sites of concern to Black Americans. It may be better for me to stick to my scientific research sites, and leave the “major” Black American websites (EUR,, e.t.c )

  9. Why in the world does BAW put garbage like this on a website where so many readers are African American. I swear, we are the only race that puts each other down at every turning point. No other race on the planet will create smear campaigns that degrade each other the way we do. While we are sitting back and believing the negative stereotypes that white men created for slavery to cause division among the black family, other races are standing strong together and creating legacies. We need to stop dogging each other. And for the record, I am a strong, educated black sister with natural hair no weave who has been married to a beautiful black king for 20 years. Black America Web should stop allowing ignorant articles from brothers with low self esteem like this to be published.

      • D. Thomas on said:

        That is the reason we are so strong. We have no choice. No one is there to protect us. Our kings turn their backs and attack us. We raise them and love them and they get up as you just did and degrade us. I just wanna say as a sista it just hurts!!!! I just wanna cry….

  10. Timekeeeper on said:

    Readt, Get Set, Go….Let the male bashing begin. This article was posted for that sole purpose. and from the posts so far, it is working. Let the smoke come out of your ears, role those eyes, hand on the hips please along with the obligatory finger snaps. Huf, puff, huff, puff blow all of the houses down. Or in this case throw all the men under the bus. did you get your groove on yet. Did you get it off your chest,yet. Got yur best SH–T off, did you? Not to worry, there is bound to be another half assed article just like this one next week. Stay Tuned.

  11. Your ignorant ass is not describing black women. You are describing hoodrats. Educate yourself and learn the difference before you step out in public with your opinion.

  12. If you respect yourself and your relationship, then color and attitude is not going to matter. Having respect for yourself, you would not let anyone treat you any kind of way. Having respect for your relationship, you would not treat her (black or white) any kind of way!

  13. This is coming from a Beautiful Black Queen. Excuse me, but the real one’s don’t do that. White women don’t do this, that and the other; but I have seen them take everything except the cotton out of a brother’s pockets. I am not blaming a black man for anything. I am thanking one today. If you feel that you are successful, and you were raised by a black woman, sit your ass down somewhere and recognize. We are Queens. Don’t you ever forget it. Have A Blessed Day.

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