In the wake of ex-husband R. Kelly’s response to the news that his 14-year-old daughter Jaya has come out as transgender and wants to be referred to going forward as Jay, Andrea Kelly has only one thing to say.

She is in full support of her child. Kelly, one of the stars of the VH1 reality show Hollywood Exes, is currently divorcing her second husband Brian McKee, although the past season of the show focused on their marriage.

Kelly says that people, presumably even her ex, need to be open to the independent choices that their children make.

“For parents, we need to realize, [our kids] have their own journey,” Kelly told VH1. “Parents get it wrong when they don’t support their children. They have to go out and fight every day and face this world. The first battle should not be at home. I think that a lot of children in the LGBT community don’t succeed because the one thing they need the most is foundation.

I just tell Jay all the time, baby you won the war. You’re gonna have a lot of battles but you won the war. Mama accepts and loves you for who you are. Your family does. My dad is a retired military naval officer and all he said was, ‘I’m gonna mess up sometimes and [use the feminine pronoun] ‘she’ but I’m gonna eventually get the ‘he’ thing. Just give grandpa some time. I’m gonna get it dude.’ That was it.”

When her ex was asked about Jay, he responded by saying “First, don’t refer to my daughter as my son,” and went on to say not to believe everything you hear and also that anything that might be going on with his children has a “backstory.”

Kelly says that the Black community in particular, needs to be able to respect their LGBT children no matter when and how they choose to present themselves.

“[For my family] this isn’t this shocking thing. I need [people], especially in the black community, to stop burying their heads in the sand. Let’s quit playing that game that you just chose to be gay or trans. What we choose every day is what we wear. We need to stop worrying about people’s gender and sexuality and think about the choices we’re making with our youth, period. That’s what we need to focus on in my community.”

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6 thoughts on “Andrea Kelly: ‘Parents Get It Wrong When They Don’t Support Their Children’

  1. hottlanta on said:

    She’s a child now and I bet 10 years from now she’s gonna regret it. Chaz Bono know she messed up with her sex change but if she was to come out and say I mad a terrible mistake she will get a back lash from the transgender community. I wonder what kind of grades she is getting in school because it seems the only thing she is concentrating on is becoming a man. I want someone to talk to these people 10,15 20 years down the road and allow them to be truthful and say I made a mistake.

  2. MundusVoldecipi on said:

    Whenever a people embrace idolatry, narcissism, materialism, and coonery you can expect all kinds of societal ills. The strength of a people is in the value it places on women. When the women are twisted, it is all downhill from there. Also, when children are molested and exploited by musicians, artists, pastors and they are celebrated and not held accountable you can expect the spiritual consequences to play themselves out in their own homes and families.

  3. Dangerous BlkMan on said:

    All this Homo stuff is going to be the death of our poeple. Whites have pushed this onto us. Now our girls are wanting to grow up to be men. Our boys want to be girls. And the whole time we as a people suffer. When are we going to learn, we need to stop listening to white people and celebrate our own culture and let the whites keep thiers.

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