Who loves the black woman? I’ve been seeing a lot of commentary in response to my series, “Love and Marriage.” I’ve been reading even more commentary about interracial relationships, especially with the high-profile relationships of Kim and Khloe Kardashian. Many sisters who desire to be in a relationship with a successful black man – have […]

When it comes to love, marriage and starting a family, I believe timing really does matter. Circumstances, options and perspectives change along the way, all of which will determine what the right choices are for us. But as we conclude this series on love and marriage – we have already explored alternative (gay) relationships, the […]

Who’s drinking the jump-off juice? It’s like Bebe’s kids have been reinvented – jump-off’s don’t die; they multiply! Every time you turn on the news lately, another high-profile cheating scandal is being revealed – Tiger, Tiki Barber, Shaq, Steven Seagal, and even Larry “old azz” King! While I realize that infidelity has been around since […]

This month, Super Bowl and the NBA All-Star Games bring out the babes and the ballers. Many women attend these events in hopes of landing a baller – an athlete or a heavyweight money-maker. But is the goal to have a weekend hook-up or to land a love that can last a lifetime? As we […]

We’ve all heard the statistics by now. With about 70 percent of black women being single and 42 percent having never been married, the idea and ideal of black-on-black marriage is, at the least, challenged. We know the numbers, and I have no interest in reviewing that which we already know. What are the answers […]