Nearly 1,600 miles (2,575 kilometers) apart, the cities of El Paso, Texas, and Dayton, Ohio, have been united in grief and pain by a pair of shootings that left more 30 people dead.
Dayton victim called father of her children after being shot in head: Lois Oglesby, who went by Lola, was among the nine victims shot dead when gunman Connor Betts opened fire on Sunday at 1am. https://t.co/nFNc5s3s0o pic.twitter.com/CBflmtoJ1N
— Patrick (@cahulaan) August 5, 2019
In the Texas border town, a shooter who opened fire at a Walmart store left 22 people dead and some two dozen injured. Hours later, at an entertainment district in Ohio, another gunman killed nine people and injured at least 27 others.
Here are the stories of some of the victims:
EL PASO, TEXAS
JAVIER AMIR RODRIGUEZ: SOPHOMORE IN HIGH SCHOOL
Javier Amir Rodriguez, 15, was starting his sophomore year in high school when he was fatally shot at the store.
The Clint Independent School District, which identified the teen as being among the victims Monday, said he attended Horizon High School in El Paso.
The district said it had been in contact with his family and sent condolences. Valeria Chavez, a cousin of the youth, told KFOX-TV that Rodriquez was at the Walmart with an uncle who described what happened.
“He told me my cousin had made eye contact with the shooter and they were in the bank and as soon as the shooter walked in, he grabbed my cousin. He says he saw the shooter shoot him,” Chavez said.
The school district said counselors would be available, and a vigil was set for Monday night at the high school’s football stadium.
ARTURO BENAVIDES: EASYGOING ARMY VETERAN
Arturo Benavides, a U.S. Army veteran who retired as a bus driver a few years ago, was checking out at the Walmart store when the gunman entered.
His niece, Jacklin Luna, told the Los Angeles Times that 60-year-old Benavides was among those killed. His wife, Patricia, was sitting on a nearby bench and was pushed into a bathroom for safety, Luna said.
Benavides, who was born and raised in El Paso, had worked as a bus driver for El Paso’s Sun Metro.
“I spent my childhood waking up at their house, sitting out on the front porch with him on Sunday mornings, listening to the oldies on the radio,” said Luna, who described him as kind and generous.
His nephew, Ruben Rojas, said Benavides was an “easygoing” man who enjoyed watching sports and was also a good Roman Catholic who went to Mass.
JORDAN ANCHONDO: ‘GAVE HER LIFE’ FOR HER BABY
Jordan Anchondo was among those killed in El Paso, Anchondo’s sister said, and she apparently died while protecting her 2-month-old son from the hail of bullets.
Leta Jamrowski of El Paso spoke to The Associated Press as she paced a waiting room at the University Medical Center of El Paso, where her 2-month-old nephew was being treated for broken bones — the result of his mother’s fall.
“From the baby’s injuries, they said that more than likely my sister was trying to shield him,” she said. “So when she got shot she was holding him and she fell on him, so that’s why he broke some of his bones. So he pretty much lived because she gave her life.”
Jordan, a mother of three, and Andre Anchondo had dropped off her 5-year old daughter at cheerleading practice before going to shop for school supplies Saturday at Walmart. They never returned.
ANDRE ANCHONDO: HAD TURNED HIS LIFE AROUND
Andre Anchondo — the husband of Jordan Anchondo — had recently turned his life around after struggles with drug dependence and run-ins with the law, a friend recalled.
On Sunday night, John Jamrowski, the grandfather of Jordan Anchondo, said in a text message that his family has been notified of Andre Anchondo’s death.
Friend Koteiba “Koti” Azzam had fond memories of Andre Anchondo.
“I love the guy,” Azzam said in a phone interview from San Marcos, Texas. “He had the character and the charisma.”
Azzam said Andre Anchondo had started a business in El Paso, building things from granite and stone, and made it successful through hard work. He also was on the verge of completing a family home.
“It makes you question your faith almost,” said Azzam, who is Muslim. “But God didn’t have a part in it. The hands of man altered my friend’s life in a drastic way.”
MARIO DE ALBA: A WOUNDED FATHER
Mario de Alba, 45, had come to El Paso from Mexico with his family to go shopping.
Described by his sister Cristina de Alba as an “excellent father” and as a “decent, hardworking person,” he was in serious condition Sunday after being shot in the back, the bullet exiting his diaphragm.
His wife, Olivia Mariscal, and 10-year-old daughter Erika both appear to be recovering after also being wounded, de Alba said from the El Paso hospital where her brother is being treated.
The family lives in Chihuahua, Mexico — a four-hour drive south of El Paso — and was buying school supplies in the Texas city. El Paso is a popular shopping destination for people who live in northern Mexico.
Mario de Alba’s Facebook page shows him with daughter Erika. In one picture, taken in a living room, Erika cups her hand in the shape of a heart in front of an entertainment center.
DAVID JOHNSON: GRANDFATHER TRIED TO PROTECT WIFE, GRANDDAUGHTER
David Johnson, 63, was back-to-school shopping with his wife and 9-year-old granddaughter when he was killed, relatives said.
Johnson’s nephew, Dominic Patridge, said in a statement to KVIA-TV that his aunt heard gunshots while checking out. Johnson told her and his granddaughter to “get down and if anything happened to him” to run to the store next door, he said.
“The next thing she knew, he was on the ground covered in blood,” he said. Patridge said his aunt then played dead and shielded her granddaughter as the shooter walked past.
Patridge called his uncle “the kindest and most giving individual I’ve ever known.”
JESSICA COCA GARCIA and MEMO GARCIA: FUNDRAISING FOR KIDS’ SPORTS TEAM
Jessica Coca Garcia and Memo Garcia were at the Walmart to raise money for one of their children’s youth sports team when the gunman opened fire and wounded them, a relative said.
Norma Coca told Wichita, Kansas-television station KWCH that her daughter and son-in-law were near the front doors when they were shot.
Coca, who lives in Salina, Kansas, said her daughter, Jessica Coca Garcia, was shot three times in the leg. She said her son-in-law, Memo Garcia, was shot twice in the leg and once in the back. She said her daughter was in stable condition and her son-in-law was in critical condition.
Jessica Coca Garcia’s father, Don Coca, said they have family in the El Paso area who were able to be with the couple. Don Coca says: “She was just crying. … I told her that our prayers are there and we’re on our way.”
The couple’s 5-year-old son and 11-year-old daughter were also at the Walmart and were not shot.
MEXICAN GOVERNMENT IDENTIFIES CITIZENS KILLED
Mexico’s Foreign Ministry has identified eight citizens who were killed in the shooting Saturday in El Paso. The ministry did not provide ages for them. They are:
— Sara Esther Regalado of Cuidad Juarez.
— Adolfo Cerros Hernández of Aguascalientes.
— Jorge Calvillo García of Torreón.
— Elsa Mendoza de la Mora of Yepomera.
— Gloria Irma Márquez of Juárez.
— María Eugenia Legarreta Rothe, originally of Chihuahua
— Ivan Filiberto Manzano of Ciudad Juárez
— Juan de Dios Velázquez Chairez, originally of Zacatecas
SAEED SALEH: IMMIGRANT FROM AFRICA, FATHER OF THREE
A native of East Africa who moved to the United States a few years ago, Ohio shooting victim Saeed Saleh was remembered as a “humble and quiet person” by a spokesman for his family.
Yahya Khamis, president of the Sudanese Community of Dayton, said Monday that he was speaking on behalf of Saleh’s family and coordinating funeral plans for the 38-year-old. Khamis said he didn’t know Saleh well but called him kindhearted.
“He was a very good guy,” Khamis said.
A father of three, Saleh was originally from Eritrea in East Africa and later lived in Sudan before immigrating to the United States a few years ago, he said.
He said Saleh’s friends and family were thankful for the support they had received from the Dayton community.
MONICA BRICKHOUSE: POSITIVE PERSON, SUPERVISOR
Monica Brickhouse was a Springfield, Ohio, native who was working as a recovery specialist for Anthem in Virginia Beach, according to her LinkedIn profile.
Damian Seaton, who worked with Brickhouse at a bank call center before it was closed down, remembered her as an excellent supervisor.
“She was just a very positive person,” Season told Norfolk TV station WAVY. “You always knew when you sat with her you had an easygoing spirit, somebody who was going to help you, advise you in the right way.”
The profile said she received an associate’s degree from College for America at Southern New Hampshire University in 2017 and volunteered for Toys for Tots. Friend Brittany Hart wrote on Facebook that Brickhouse and another victim, Beatrice Warren-Curtis, “checked in on my family and made your love for my family known.”
Brickhouse was also part of Two Good Girls, an event planning and catering business, according to her Facebook page.
MEGAN BETTS: GUNMAN’S SISTER WAS ARTISTIC, POLICE
A classmate remembered Ohio shooting victim Megan Betts, the sister of the gunman, as “artistic, polite” and someone who “loved going to band class.”
Addison Brickler, 23, rode the bus to school with Connor and Megan Betts. Megan would sit with her friend on the bus every day, Brickler said.
“She always had a smile on her face,” Brickler said.
“It’s harder for me to wrap my head around why he would do this to someone, his sister.”
NICHOLAS CUMER: HELPED CANCER PATIENTS
Nicholas Cumer, a graduate student in the master of cancer care program at Saint Francis University in Loretto, Pennsylvania, was among those killed in the Dayton shooting early Sunday.
“Nicholas was dedicated to caring for others,” university President Malachi Van Tassell said in a statement.
The family released a statement through a relative saying member were “heartbroken by the loss of our Nicholas” and asking for privacy.
Cumer had been in Dayton as part of his internship program with the Maple Tree Cancer Alliance, which strives to improve the quality of life for those with cancer through exercise nutrition, and faith.
“He was well liked and respected by everyone on our team, and we all will miss him very much,” the organization said in a statement. Cumer was a week away from completing his internship.
Van Tassell said a Mass in Cumer’s memory will be arranged on campus this week.
LOIS OGLESBY: NURSING STUDENT WHO WANTED TO CARE FOR CHILDREN
Lois Oglesby, 27, was in nursing school and looked forward to a career that would make the most of her love for children, her cousin said. She was also the mother of a newborn and had an older daughter.
Derasha Merrett told the Dayton Daily News that she was up feeding her own newborn when a friend called her at 3 a.m. Sunday to tell her, through sobs, that Oglesby had died in the Dayton shooting.
“She was a wonderful mother, a wonderful person,” Merrett said. “I have cried so much, I can’t cry anymore.”
Merrett said she and her cousin grew up in the same church and that Oglesby worked at her children’s day care center.
“We all grew up in this little town,” Merrett said. “We’re all family.”
LOGAN TURNER: ‘GENEROUS AND LOVING,’ HAD JUST TURNED 30
Just days past his 30th birthday, Logan Turner was “very generous and loving and the world’s best son,” mother Danita Turner told the Dayton Daily News.
“Everyone loved Logan,” she said. “He was a happy-go-lucky guy.”
Turner said her son was out with a few friends when he was shot just outside a bar in Dayton’s historic Oregon District.
Turner had a degree from Sinclair Community College and went on to earn an engineering degree from the University of Toledo, his mother said. He also attended Wright State University for a while, according to Seth Bauguess, spokesman for the university in Dayton.
Turner’s mother said he had recently started working as a machinist at a company in Springboro.
Lee reported from El Paso. Guthrie reported from Mexico City. AP reporters Jamie Stengle in Dallas; Andrew Selsky in Salem, Oregon; Lisa Cornwell in Cincinnati, Ohio; Becky Bohrer in Juneau, Alaska; and Jay Reeves in Birmingham, Alabama, contributed to this report.
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