Be cautious with your heart. Finding love is a blessing. But sometimes, not all people have your best interests at heart. Get to know your potential partner like you know the back of your hand before going “all in”.
Exercise good judgment. Who doesn’t like to be wined and dined? Go ahead and enjoy! But just know that most of us always put our game faces on to get to the next step.
Watch out for red flags. How does he deal with others? Do you notice that he uses the smokescreen with family, friends or business associates? If so, he’ll more than likely use it with you too.
Always put your needs first. How is he beyond the wining and dining? Is he all that you’ve been looking for from beginning to end AND in between?
Remember what really makes you happy. Sure, he can wine you and dine you. But is he respectful? Is he truthful? Does he have those qualities that you value in a person of admirable character? And then…
Except nothing less than that. It all goes back to what you want and value. You deserve nothing less than the best!
