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Cynthia Bailey continues to defend her husband Peter Thomas against accusations that he was cheating on her with several women in Atlanta.

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Her “Real Housewives of Atlanta” co-star Porsha Williams said as much on the show during a conversation with fellow housewife Phaedra Parks. Bailey confronted Williams about it, and she and Parks both stood by their statements that Thomas was not being faithful.

Now Bailey has taken to her blog to set the record straight.

“If Peter was cheating on me, I would know about it. Any woman that has been with my husband (knowing that he is a married man) is not going to keep it a secret. They are going to tell someone. Women with no self-value or integrity will always go out of their way to make sure the wife finds out. In their small minds, it’s a victory.”

She also addressed Parks’ claim that Thomas was having an affair with women from his Bar One restaurant.

“Peter is the most accessible husband on the show. Tons of women walk through the doors of Bar One and Sports One every day. It is his job to be cordial and take pictures with them if requested. If he is too nice, he is flirting with them. If he is too standoffish, he is an a–hole. Most of the women are genuine fans, but some do have agendas. Regardless, they have the opportunity to meet him, shake his hand, hug him, and take a picture with him.”

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59 thoughts on “Cynthia Bailey: ‘If Peter Was Cheating on Me, I Would Know About It’

  1. BooThang on said:

    Cynthia, I thought you was smart. You actually sound dumb boo!!! You will live and learn. Keep living!!!

  2. Ladydy on said:

    He may be cheating. A man will when given a chance. Also he can only spend what she makes aavailable. If she like it we should love it.
    Cynthia just don’t want to really know. We never do, it’s called “protecting the heart.”

  3. Edna Phillips on said:

    Well Actually Ladies the reason why you are all so mad / Sad ( to use anger when addressing her situation ) Concerning Cynthis is because the hurt we all know is waiting for her Once she finds out almost every Message given in reply to her Husbands Dishonestly & Deceitful Ways , He is very Arrogant and that’s what makes everyone so angry because to have a woman who is giving him her All and have so much going on for herself without getting anything in return is sad ( we as woman learned at an early age ) to do that with a Man Or Loved one causes hurt and its devastating to a relationship Especially a marriage – when you put someone so high on a pedestal you lose your way and yourself , Peter has Condescending ways when he responds to most things that’s why everyone respond so negativ. We all watch you and we know exactly where your headed. Cynthia it’s women like me who have been there most are very bitter but I am not I got over it like you may and it made me stronger and have more of a sense of myself and you may not want to believe these women but you best believe you will be hurt. If Peter wasn’t so Quick to jump up and defend his position with Fans it wouldn’t be so believeable he wouldn’t be so hated because to defend yourself to people who don’t mean a thing to your situation is a dead giveaway. Remember we ( most of us as women have been there ) every women who doesn’t think for herself is headed for trouble you can’t because he is so controlling he bombards you with his opinions and everything he wants and needs , I can see this on the show . He disrespects you as his wife by doing what he wants and not giving you the chance to speak with his to discuss these Large purchases and getting whatever he wants with out at least mentioning to you he was deciding to make these moves, yeah he might throw you crumbs here and there ( agreeing to things you need and want but how much can you get that you deserve because he’s too busy thinking up schemes to spend more of your money but I only wish you could see it for what it is and put a stop to it now before it’s too late and before your almost broke because if you keep going the way you are by the time you open your eyes to see ( see with the intuition God gave you , you are going to be devastated because Porsha and One of the other ladies were trying to tell you the signs are there, but I do realize you can’t put a stop to all this , so your protecting yourself by being blind to the situation and being defensive and being determined to go full speed ahead . Your mom and Sister Love you and they have the wisdom that you don’t possess at this time , to go through all this and not recognize what’s going on ( or maybe because your not a match for Peter clearly your not he just bull doses over all your opinions and ideas and I don’t live with you but I know if you start spending too much he will have a problem with you because the moment he married you he had and now still has plans for your funds ( Cash ) the way you test this is to say NO Sometime and WATCH how Rocky your Marriage Gets you won’t do this because you rather be submissive and do everything his way but that cash most of it is yours to make sure you your Daughter have a wonderful lifev( She is older now try taking her on a couple of trips – Peter will start having a problem you might as well test him because this marriage even though I hope it works it won’t what keeps this Train Reck Moving is your money I know you don’t have a strong will at least with Peter with most men you don’t need one but with you husband you need to be stronger and start Banking more of your funds and try to save almost all of it because that shouldn’t wreck your marriage but that is the bricks that keep your house ( Marriage ) together going to let the chips fall where they May )
    Is a useless fight because we see all this clearly but untill you do or untill you use your God given strength it will be .
    From Edna

  4. Why are you women so against Cynthia? It’s as if you want her husband to cheat on her. Jealous ass women/ haters. I can tell you women do not have husbands. I would believe my husband over a jealous woman anyday. Now, women don’t seem to have a problem when men financially support their women, but it a women supports her man financially then she is simple minded.

  5. she sounds so stupid I said she was simple, if he is (I believe he is),she’s not going to tell it, it might be with Claudia, remember his reactions when he saw her, she is pitiful when it comes to that ugly man. I know Leon is thankful he got out .

  6. Marie on said:

    Cynthia, you are CRAZY to think that you are an authority to know when your man is cheating!!!! Don’t be so comfortable in that mindset because the devil shows himself all kinds of ways. It’s a set-up for you to say something so boldly. Your husband is handsome. I love dark skinned men myself!!! You better watch your back, a lot of ladies come in the bar, just like you said….with all kinds of agendas!

  7. Angel on said:

    Never say never because you will end up eating those words. i learned my lesson on that one. Poor delusional Cynthia

  8. I love what my grandmother used to tell us all of the time growing up: NEVER SAY WHAT A PERSON WILL AND WON’T DO. THEY WILL MAKE A LIAR OUT OF YOU EVERY TIME!

  9. I really dislike women calling other women dumb for trusting their husbands. Cynthia is a beautiful classy lady. If women are cheating with her husband, they are the ones who are dumb/stupid. The women commenting makes me so embarrassed for them. Ugly women always hate beautiful women. Keep your head up Cynthia. They are hoping you turn ugly like them.

      • No she is not dumb and simple. You dislike Cynthia…. I can tell. And you are hoping that the allegations against her husband are true because that is how haters behave. Calling this woman a dog. Cynthia is right. When a woman is cheating with your husband/boyfriend they tend to call and brag about what they are doing with your husband. This is what she is saying. Black women can be scandalous at times.

      • Wasn’t it Peter in the second season that said “before he knew she had cyst, that he was going to cheat & also get a separate resident “, she didn’t even know that he was opening a coffee shop until he already rented the property, he has shown that he can be deceitful toward his wife, so cheating isn’t that far off. Some women don’t know their husbands are cheating. Not saying that he is and hope that he’s not, but from what I’ve SEEN and HEARD yeah I’m leaning in that direction.

    • Seen or heard? If you do not have actual proof then everything else is just speculation. Here’s an idea, women should leave married men alone. The women who are messing around with a married man is the dumb one not Cynthia. Cynthia has the right to comment on these allegations. I guess you want her shut up and stay mute.

  10. millie on said:

    dear cynthia bailey, only a hit dog is gonna holla. you(dog) got hit knowing that your husband is cheating that’s why you are responding(holla). your comments are typical of a wife whose getting ahead of the fallout/in denial. at this point the best thing you can do is get off the internet discussing your personal business B4 you really get your feelings hurt. all for the sake of getting a BRAVO check; seriously? have whatever opinion you may have about perceived nemesis(NeNe), but pay attention. The truth hurts only because we create and put persons, beliefs and things on pedestals.

  11. Redhead on said:

    She wouldn’t if he was cheating because she is dumb as a tree stump. She can’t think on her own. Which means if he didn’t have his hand up her puppet behind then she was unable to think or talk.

  12. She does know about it but she can’t do anything about it. She’s are a fool to stay in that relationship like that only because she will be embarrassed to admit her family was right about him. This man have cheating on her dumb azz for a few seasons and she knows it. Cynthia is a dumb woman who deserves to get everything she’s getting and more.

  13. specialt757 on said:

    “If Peter (he) Was Cheating on Me, I Would Know About It’, famous last words from a lot of disillusioned women of the world.

  14. LOL!!!! THIS ONE TALKING ABOUT INTEGRITY! SO CYNTHIA THINKS THAT JUST BECAUSE WOMEN DONT OPEN THEIR MOUTHS ABOUT WHO THEIR MESSING AROUND WITH IS HER REASON FOR NOT BELIEVING IT? REALLY CYNTHIA! HOW ABOUT PETER MENTIONING TO WHOEVER HE’S MESSING AROUND WITH TO KEEP QUIET BECAUSE YOUR HIS BANK WHO KEEPS THROWING CASH HIS WAY FOR EVERY BUSINESS ADVENTURE HE TRIES AND BY THE WAY FAILS AT! SMH. THIS IS ONE DUMB BIMBO!!! PETER HAS HIS CAKE AND EATING IT TOO!

    • Peter is using her until he get every dime of her money. When he leaves her, his bank account is going to be fat and hers is going to be empty. He’s not wasting the money she’s giving him, he’s banking that money and making her think the business went under. As for him cheating: yes, he is cheating his behind off and have been for years, sad thing is: she knows it. Cynthia just does not want anyone to know about his cheating because she does not want her family to know about it.

  15. what ever going on with you and peter is between the two of you, porsha should stay out of it. porsha ran her mouth on tv she just can’t be quite when it comes to people nene don’t like. she always come at kenya all the time and speak so hateful . porsha need to go

  16. I think she can’t prove it because Peter, Apollo, and Todd are having private parties. That’s why Kandi can’t prove it. Look how Todd and Peter look at each other. Peter looks like he would do anything for $$$$$$. Maybe we looking at the wrong sex. Maybe it’s Todd who he with.

    • LOL!!! That would be hilarious. LOL!!! OMG, I can’t stop laughing. But on a serious note, I think Peter, Todd and Apollo were cheating. I have always felt Todd was cheating.

  17. Pathetic! on said:

    Cynthia…………..you BARELY know what day of the week it is, let alone if Peter-the-Skirt-Chaser is cheating on you.

    HE loves you…………..but he’s cheating on you BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT GOOD IN THE BEDROOM! YOU’RE A BORING, BIG EMPYT-HEADED, ATTRACTIVE WOMAN WHO IS STILL MADLY IN LOVE WITH HER EX………LEON.

    • I thought I was the only one who noticed that. Have you seen how she brightens up when she is around Leon. She wants him so bad, it’s pathetic but I don’t think Leon would have her. She’s been rejected more times than she has fingers and toes. She’s a total reject.

  18. Cynthia, stop getting on TV and acting like you know, because you don’t have a clue. He did not tell you about his so called business ventures. Peter is a cheating, we see it because our eyes are open. Remember what your mother and sister tried to do before your wedding, it was for a reason. Regardless of what you think you know, any man who is that controlling is a cheater. The reason he allows you to work is so that you can keep him financed. You look smart, but you act like dumb, dumber, and the dumbest all the time.

  19. JML on said:

    ALSO…………………………………………Cynthia have you forgotten you LIVE in Atlanta, so from the way Peter is always up in females business WHEN he shouldn’t be, trust he could be getten it on with other men and that you DEF might not ever know about.

  20. Kim on said:

    how would you know if he was cheating, you don’t know when he buy’s new cars and open up coffee shops. seems like it isn’t hard to keep anything from you and not all women go around telling their business. DUMMY!!!!!!!

  21. LOL@ U GIRL. IF HE WAS CHEATING YOU WOULD KNOW ABOUT IT. YOUR DUMB HE PURCHASED A CAR AND 2 BUILDINGS AND YOUR DUMB ASS DIDN’T KNOW AND ALSO HE SAID YOU HAD TO WRITE THE CHECK ON THE NEW LOCATION OF BAR ONE. IF YOU HAVE THE POCKET BOOK (MONEY) WHO IS PAYING THAT CHILD SUPPORT? CYN YOU A DUMB A SS WOMAN

    • I don’t think it would be an open marriage unless the two of them agreed to see and be with other people. In this case, he is fooling around with other women but she is not allowed to be with another man. Even if he told her she could, she wouldn’t because she’s to dumb to get rid of him so she can start a new life for herself.

  22. pyh on said:

    People make comments all the time, but i really do not believe anyone would stoop that low to sleep with Peter, he all in women business and he sucking Cynthia dry, where does his money come from, what does he actually do as far as work goes, looks like he’s just getting paid for doing the show. Cynthia wasn’t too fond of the botox on your face, and that big ole wig you have is not doing you any justice, be natural.

    • Cynthia was dumb enough to have him wasn’t she? There are some more Cynthia’s out there who would have him, believe me. Of course, like you, I can’t see who would want him but someone would. He’s not an attractive man at all and he’s jobless. He has nothing going for himself at all.

  23. EVE on said:

    Dam Cynthia, you are catching some harsh and hateful comments. You did not put you husband down, nor did you degrade him. You simple stated that you put you trust in him. Cynthia you have got to stop being so terrible. Cynthia this is your marriage. If you are happy, you be happy.

  24. As if Phakedra and her sidekick Einstein know what men are up to so well. One’s husband was a thieving behind her back and the other was blindsided when her husband dumped her sorry butt through social media

  25. No Cynthia if Peter was cheating on you , you wouldn’t know it unless you are with him 24/7 he looks like the type that would cheat and again he is a man, he even stated that he was going out of the country to do it remember when you were having problems with your stomach or whatever pain that was you were having and could do it and he didn’t believe you. Never say what a man want do like someone was stated it is in their DNA.

  26. I’m sorry, but a money leach like peter is no prize, and I definitely would not brag to anyone about having a drunk f*@# with that man, and ummmmm, excuse me Cynthia, NO “YOU” wouldn’t know if he was cheating, and if you did or do know then you as weak and pathetic as you appear on RHOA. GURL, BYE!

    • Joanne on said:

      So true. Who would brag about being with Peter Thomas, except Cynthia. She seems to think that her husband is such a great catch. No self-respecting woman wants that man.

  27. No he is not cheating on her HE IS TAKING ALL HER MONEY BUYING CARS, NEW BUSINESS WITHOUT TALKING TO HER. She needs to be slapped to wake up. If she dont stay on that show she will have to go back to modeling again.

  28. Nancy on said:

    That’s what every wife thinks until the truth hits her in the face. Men are sneaky basters and slither like a snake if they want a piece of tail.

    • Nancy so you know it, woman is the slithering snake you speak of and will do anything for money. Remember we would all be walking around here naked and no worries in the world if it were not for woman being disobedient and unfaithful from the beginning.

  29. Spacecadet on said:

    LOL! Cynthia is suck a winner. Just like there are other women who don’t know, she’s no different. And not all women will run out and tell it. SMH….

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