Darker-skinned black women will typically bear vulvas that are darker in color due to hyperpigmentation. Some women will have inner labia that hang lower than the outer labia and others may have outer labia that contain more deposits of fat. Large clitoris, small clitoris, clitoral hoods that cover the entire glans, shabby hair, curly hair, straight hair or none at all; these are all variations that may occur for any woman, and when we get down to the reality of sexual parts there is nothing to be ashamed of.
Instead of treating the vulva harshly and passing judgment, more women should make the commitment to embrace what’s between their legs. Using a hand held mirror to take a look for at least five minutes is a great way to become one with the appearance your genitals. It’s easy for a man to connect with his penis simply because it hangs from his body, but rarely does the average woman take the time to truly connect with what makes her a woman biologically.
Embracing one’s uniqueness in how she has been created will help in embracing sexuality and removing shame associated with being liberated as a woman. The fact of the matter is, every woman is diversely made and should be celebrated for the beauty she possesses. If you’re a woman struggling with accepting your lady parts as normal, clear your mind of the images you’ve once known and become one with the reality of the appearance of your vulva. It’s uniquely you, so own it with pride.
From Shaming To Surgery: Stop Looking For The “Picture Perfect” Vulva was originally published on blackdoctor.org
