Get away from the house.
It’s not often that couples are able to enjoy peace and quiet in their home when getting into a sensual situation without the possibility of children crashing the party or getting into something that may require attention. Make your erotic hour even more special and carefree by choosing to have sex in an environment outside of the home, preferably at a nice hotel or a specialty hotel that is specifically designed for romantic getaways. Schedule a couple’s massage that can be performed in the room. Choose a room that has a bathtub or Jacuzzi and let the water jets soothe aches and pains while you and your partner enjoy a time away from energized children and their forever flowing needs. Relax your mind knowing that your little ones are in the care of those who are cautious and careful. Scheduling this activity outside of the home will make the experience seem even more exciting and will give you something to look forward to. Think of it as a one day staycation in your town.
Use alternative ways to keep the sexual relationship spicy.
Sometimes having physical sex may not be an option during the week. A babysitter may not be available, holidays may have you tied up in spending quality family time with the kids or work may be too hectic to allow any time in between for play. If this is the case, choosing to use alternative ways to keep sexual desire high is the best option to balance out having a sex life while being a parent. Use Facetime or Skype on lunch breaks to talk about the next sexy encounter you will have, leave each other naughty notes or IOU letters to get the imagination going on what is to come the next time you two are together alone. Use sex toys to stimulate each other during nap time for the kids or take showers together in the morning time for a 2-in-1 combo of getting clean while getting a little dirty.
How To Have A Sex Life After Having Children was originally published on blackdoctor.org
