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Keep your sex life interesting.

Bring out your sexual goddess and dust off those old tricks that made him go mad for you in the first place. Adding new sexual techniques and intimacy building exercises will give him something to look forward to as well. Buy some new toys, have sex in new places, let your imagination run wild! If you don’t know what your guy likes anymore, have a conversation about things that he would like to do. Realize that men have needs and if you aren’t meeting them, chances are he is either pleasuring himself or getting someone else to do it for him. Keep your bedroom hot for him, and he will have no reason to find a side chick to fulfill his sexual desires.

Make time to spend QUALITY time.

Being a career woman, a mother, finding time for self, balancing time with friends and family or a combination of all those things can make it difficult to take time out to spend some much needed quality time with your lover. Make the time to be in complete communion with your partner. No phones, no tablets, no phone calls, no social media; just time with your partner doing whatever it is you both enjoy together. Try doing something that he has an interest in for once. If he is a football fan and you aren’t so much, choose one day where you decide to put your disdain for the sport aside and surprise him with tickets to his favorite team’s home game. Men like surprises just as much a women do, especially when they are surprises that have their interests at the center.

During this time you can get to know things about your partner that you may have never known before by being completely in the moment and attentive to him. You would want him to do the same for you, so why not lead by example? Put effort into paying attention to your man during your quality time moments and you will see a difference in how deep your bond becomes.

Listen and take action.

Taking at least and hour out of your day to talk and listen to what his desires, dreams and fantasies are and giving positive feedback where needed will help with bonding you two closer together. Side chicks sit and listen to men complain about how unhappy they are in their relationships and soak up every bit of information about what those men are missing in their relationships and provide everything the main chick isn’t giving. If you take the time to listen to your partner and fix the areas that he believes can be improved, you won’t have to worry about another woman knowing how to please your man better than you. If you don’t want to lose to the side chick, listen to your man and take actions towards change! Compromise is necessary for any contract to work.

 

 

 

Oh The ‘Scandal’!: How Not To Lose To The Other Woman  was originally published on blackdoctor.org

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