Jacque Reid goes Inside Her Story with Pastor Bromleigh McCleneghan to discuss her new book “Good Christian Sex: Why Chasity Isn’t the Only Option-And Other Things The Bible Says About Sex.”

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“There are other questions that make sex holy. Just being married doesn’t make it holy. Marriage is a wonderful thing, but it’s not the only way people have relationships,” Pastor McCleneghan said.

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22 thoughts on “Should Christians Feel Ashamed For Having Sex? One Pastor Says No

  1. I’ve read most of these comments stating that sex is for marriage people. I will get over 9p % of you had sex before marriage and still are.

  2. What will we do with 2 Corinthians 2-4 and Hebrews 13:4? I’m just wondering what the rationale for excluding these and the many other statements the bible states about this matter. Saints, don’t trip, this is common practice to exclude scriptures to hold on to certain practices some want to continue. But “marvel not…you “ you know the story.

    • I believe that in todays times people downplay what the Word of God says to justify their own opinions on how things should be. She is saying if you enjoy it its okay to commit fornication???
      Where does it say that?

  3. Annie B on said:

    Yes the devil is a liar! It said in Bible that your body is the Temple, therefore I cannot believe someone of her status would write a book like that. She sounds like a wolf in sheep’s clothing!!

  4. First of all this gentile woman is a false prophet. Women can’t be pastors or apostles or deacons. The women in the church shall call themselves mothers and sisters. It is clearly stated in 1 Timothy. I the black Israelites in America what up to who we really are. This dog this viper is a blasphemer.

  5. Okay,my friends here at work couldn’t wait to share this with me. As an ex-model, still a real Virgin in my mid 50″s,been saved since my late teens,if there was a loophole in the Bible I would have found it by now. I really need to start up my Abstinence Ministry again. SEX is a Gift that God gave to Marriage.

  6. Valerie ross on said:

    I agree, sex is a beautiful thing shared within marriage. However, where does the bible say that oral/anal sex is wrong? What is sexually done within a marriage, when done in love and with both peoples consent, is good. As long as it is Not done to fulfill a fantasy and/or recreate something you picked up from porn, done with an animal, done with someone of the same-sex, and done with another’s partner, it is good. They key word is what is done in making “Love” in a marriage is fine.

  7. skeptical on said:

    I guess my whole thing about this is….she really didn’t say anything. She really didn’t back up anything she said to make her point. So even if I was looking to be swayed, she didn’t say anything that would sway me.

  8. Pure and simple, SEX between 2 humans is something that God created for MARRIED couples. The Bible, God’s written Word, tell us that. Anyone who CLAIMS to be a Christian and who misleads others into thinking it’s nothing to be ashamed of is a hypocrite and doing Satan’s work and not God’s. Jesus warned us of “those who would come along and twist the Scriptures to please themselves”. Read the Bible for yourself and pray to God for directions and guidance. Unlike humans, God will NEVER deceive us.

    • Sarita Wilson on said:

      Mickey, For the most part, I agree with you that sex is for married people. But that “it’s nothing to be ashamed of” should be clarified. Married Christians have nothing to be ashamed of when having relations. I hope that’s what you meant. The Greek word used in the New Testament (Greek Scriptures) for fornication is ‘porneia’ and it refers to all sexual acts outside of marriage and even some within that God-given arrangement (among singles; oral, anal, homo-, animal). All such sexual sins are detested by the God who inspired the writing and preserving of the Bible for those who truly want to live as he requires. As true Christians, we should feel shame if we engage in ANY form of sex, with or without the benefit of marriage that God deems degrading. I once heard a pastor say that in marriage it’s okay for oral/anal. But that does not fit with what God expects of his servants at all.

      • Thank you for bringing to my attention the fact that I did not make myself clear. You are 100% correct in your comments regarding acts considered deplorable by God performed between married couples. It’s refreshing to hear from someone who clearly understands what God approves of and who’s not afraid to voice their beliefs.

      • Valerie Ross on said:

        I agree, sex is a beautiful thing shared within marriage. However, where does the bible say that oral/anal sex is wrong? What is sexually done within a marriage, when done in love and with both peoples consent, is good. As long as it is Not done to fulfill a fantasy and/or recreate something you picked up from porn, done with an animal, done with someone of the same-sex, and done with another’s partner, it is good. They key word is what is done in making “Love” in a marriage is fine.

    • So right. Don’t add to God’s word and don’t take away from it. People want to twist the scriptures to please themselves and try to justify their wrongdoing! Sin is Sin!!!

  9. This lady who calls herself a pastor says in her book that sex outside of marriage can be holy.

    The devil is a liar. This is why you must seek God for himself….

    How can Holiness have anything to do with sin.

    There is a special place in hell for pastor who mislead even one!!!!!!

    Carnal minded pastors. Carnal minded members.

    Reprobate minds

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