Women and men are wired differently when it comes to the triggers that spark sexual arousal. Men are more visually based whereas women are more emotionally and mentally based, requiring mental stimulation in order to become aroused. It may appear that women are always enjoying themselves in the bedroom because of the love faces formed, moist nether regions and sensual moans, but in reality women have moments of lackluster experiences that aren’t often discussed in order to protect the ego of their partners. The things that turn women off in the bedroom aren’t so apparent, so to help out those men seeking to improve their sexual technique, here are five things that turn women off during sex.
A one trick pony makes for an extremely boring show, and this same rule applies to sexual performance. A man that remains in the same stroke pattern and sex position for the duration of the experience will create an atmosphere of boredom and lose the interest of his partner. Switch things up and keep things interesting by remaining in a position for no more than 60 seconds and by varying the stroke pattern. Use a 10 stroke pattern, alternating from five long, slow strokes to five quickened short strokes. The variety will drive her wild!
2. Lack of expression
There is nothing worse than being in a sexual situation where a man is completely silent during the experience. Moans, groans and other sound effects are signs of positive affirmation that notifies a woman of her partner’s enjoyment as well as her superb performance, but when he is as quiet as a church mouse the lack of feedback will send a woman’s libido from 10 to 0 in 60 seconds. When libido drops, the vagina begins to return to its normal state and the flow of lubrication begins to decrease, ushering intercourse from a pleasurable situation to complete irritation. If you are enjoying yourself during sex do not feel ashamed about expressing how you feel. It will turn her on and make her work harder at pleasing you.
Rough sex is one thing, but sex that is forced when a woman does not want it to be rough is another. This type of sex not only turns a woman off, but it also makes the vagina feel threatened causing the vagina to close up and deny entry. If a woman is not into rough sex and she repeatedly uses words that express her lack of interest, you must play by her rules. A woman must feel comfortable and secure in order to enjoy a sexual experience.
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