Your Relationship May Be Broken, But You Don’t Have to Be

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This same challenge can present itself in our personal relationships. Have you ever poured so much into trying to make a relationship work, doing whatever you could to push and move it in the right direction, that when you finally looked up, you lost yourself in the process? Your relationship may or may not have lasted, but your spirit, energy, and self-awareness dried up – or got dehydrated. Too often, what we fail to realize is that the more we nourish ourselves spiritually, mentally and emotionally, the better we are for ourselves and anyone who’s in our life. We know this on an intellectual level. It’s putting it into practice that gets difficult sometimes.

The hard reality is some people will take whatever you give out, but the return for you is worth very little. Are there people in your life who take from you constantly, but on the day you need encouragement and restoration, they’re nowhere to be found? Here’s a hint that it may be time to show them the door.

•    If you can’t be your best self when they are around, you need to let them go.
•    If you have to walk on eggshells or monitor your words extra carefully when they are around, you need to let them go.
•    If you find that your spirit feels heavy when they are around and lighter when they are gone, you need to let them go.
•    If loving them in any way hurts you, well, you know the answer: You need to let them go!

DEYA DIRECTIVE: Letting go is not about losing. It’s about freeing yourself and others from situations that are no longer working in your best interest. Let him, her, it, them GO; so that you might be light enough, agile enough and available for the gift of what’s next in your life – Go get it!

Deya “Direct” Smith, is a lead producer on the Tom Joyner Morning Show and host of Girlfriend FM & Beyond the Studio celebrity interviews. She is also the author of the best-selling book “Touch Yourself, 30 Ways to Live, Love and Let Go!” ( Deya is a life-style and inspirational speaker. Find her on Twitter@DeyaDirect and @Touchmebooks.

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One thought on “Your Relationship May Be Broken, But You Don’t Have to Be

  1. The feelings we feel after the end of a relationship may be incredibly intense. They may change at the drop of a hat – one minute we may feel joy and relief while the next finds us sobbing in the bathroom. It’s important to remember that no matter how we’re feeling, the intensity of the emotion is normal and is, in the end, a means to healing from the loss.

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