What about women in relationships with men who won’t commit?
You can’t change a person. That’s number one. If this person doesn’t want to commit, you can’t make somebody do something they don’t want to do. It might be something that you showed him that makes him not want to commit. It might have scared him and made him want to back up. I’ve seen that happen quite a few times.
Although you’ve created some great music, it doesn’t seem like the best idea to take relationship advice from an R&B singer. They usually always have a bunch of failed relationships and babies all over the place.
Let me say this to you; we all mature as we get older. You gotta remember what the book says. If I didn’t do the “don’t’s”, I couldn’t tell you the “do’s”.
Who’s better to tell you what to do or not to do than someone who has experienced it?
Now how can a single man give good relationship advice?
You don’t have to be married to have a great relationship. The book does not say you have to be married. There are a lot of people who are not married but they have great relationships. Some people say the piece of paper changes things. You can make a great relationship happen in whatever relationship you happen to be in.
Who is the book geared towards?
It’s for people who are having trouble. It’s for people who are trying to make their relationship better and sexier. It’s for people getting into relationships to find out how to keep their relationship.
As just about everyone knows, you were once married to former “Real Housewife of Atlanta” cast member Lisa Wu. Have you remarried since then?
Well, I’m not remarried now. (Laughs) But that was so long ago. It’s crazy when that whole thing came up people were acting like that was yesterday. That was ten years ago! So that was funny and that’s why when that whole thing happened, I was laughing about it.
So are you available? And will you ever remarry?
Yes, most definitely. But as for marriage, that’s up in the air. I mean I’m not against it, but I’m not sure about that. It’s got to be real extra, believe that. (Laughs).
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